Is it normal that I would really like to be fetishized and degraded/humiliated by a white guy?

[Anonymous]

#bdsm

[PBandJ_Nerd]

It depends on what you mean really. If you mean something like Slave & Master or Pet & Owner, then yeah that's pretty common. As there's many things that the dom can use to humiliate the sub. However, I would be VERY careful-as there are guys who are pretend/fake doms that are really abusers in disguise trying to get their hands on someone. I know some people recommend waiting until you have a healthy relationship with a partner to do BDSM (also, make sure you take the classes).

[Katie1964]

Degradation/humiliation by anyone or toward anyone is wrong in my book regardless of race, ethnicity, sex or whatever.

[hellionthesagereborn]

Well that depends on several factors. Raceplay is a thing so its not like its unheard of. However for women wanting to be controled and dominated is the norm not the exception, so I would say if your focused on white men doing this then its probably because you see them as having greater status or power and thus see them as more "dominant'. So while I wouldn't say its normal, I don't think its that uncommon either.

[0112358]

Most women don’t like it but it’s not that unusual.

[NamerOfStars]

I don't think it's very uncommon. Some people have moral problems with certain paraphilias, but remember that a fantasy is a fantasy, and you don't control what arouses you.

[HappyAccident]

Uhm isn't that more of a interest not the "Normal" in general

[Yads_Is_Back]

Whether normal or not, you're not alone.

[magiusX26]

nice

[anniisa]

No... but to each their own.

[MrTuxedo]

In the terms of sex, I think it's fine if you are both okay with it. Also, if it ain't too extreme, it can no hurt anyone.

[Amraam]

Just out of curiosity, are you black? Everything in sexuality is normal. Whatever makes you happy, satisfied should be questioned by no moral, ethical values

[Asker]

Nope

[Amraam]

It doesn't matter. If this gives you sexual satisfaction, you should do it

[Dargil]

Degraded how? Are you non-white?

[Bandit74]

Yeah, generally it seems like women hate being fetished based on their race and are extremely offended by it.

Personally tho I wouldn't care if a girl fetishized my race.

[Asker]

I’ve seen you around here for a while. Are you caribbean black? Could you actually see yourself in a relationship with a girl who actually fetishized your race even outside the bedroom?

[Bandit74]

Yeah I've been here since 2014. No, I'm white and it depends on what fetishizing my race outside the bedroom would entail?

[Asker]

I can’t think of any ways a white guy could be fetishized. But, it seems like most women hate being fetishized but some like, it’s best to check that first before having sex.

[Bandit74]

If a non white girl specifically seeks out white guys that could be viewed as fetishizing. Thats generally how it's labeled if a white guy specifically seeks out Asian or black women. I don't know if this ever actually happens outside of porn but another example could be if during sex a non white girl makes reference to her boyfriend being white like "fuck me with that white cock" that could be viewed as fetishizing too.

[magiusX26]

its a rarer fetish called race play

[PandaSon]

if thats what ur into its completly fine!

[Thatsamazing]

Yes it's normal, though his whiteness, or lack thereof, is entirely beside the point so that's a little weird actually.

[skittles2017]

Yes it is normal

[Bellimo]

Key word for all the people who say it is not normal... it is a fetish and fantasy. She is not fetishizing harm on other but is getting pleasure out of feeling degraded by someone she subconciously wants to feel submissive to cause it is perhaps taboo for her culture os social enviornment.

Go for it love. It is your fantasy.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No. Why would you desire for someone to treat you like dirt?

[vlx-na]

Why not, you do you.

[Nachowedgie]

How would you be fetishized?

[pantyloverr]

Why would it be wrong if you like it? Color makes no difference if you enjoy that and need it in your life its all good.

[billluc69]

why not, sounds fun

[Oric5]

What nationality are you?

[Anonymous]

Yes, if its what you like then its fine and good

[Anonymous]

If your a black female yes its normal

[Asker]

so if i’m hispanic or indian, it’s not normal?

[Opinion Owner]

I don't know what's sup with that. You might just be freaky