Is it normal that I would really like to be fetishized and degraded/humiliated by a white guy?

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  • It depends on what you mean really. If you mean something like Slave & Master or Pet & Owner, then yeah that's pretty common. As there's many things that the dom can use to humiliate the sub. However, I would be VERY careful-as there are guys who are pretend/fake doms that are really abusers in disguise trying to get their hands on someone. I know some people recommend waiting until you have a healthy relationship with a partner to do BDSM (also, make sure you take the classes).

  • Degradation/humiliation by anyone or toward anyone is wrong in my book regardless of race, ethnicity, sex or whatever.

Most Helpful Guys

  • Well that depends on several factors. Raceplay is a thing so its not like its unheard of. However for women wanting to be controled and dominated is the norm not the exception, so I would say if your focused on white men doing this then its probably because you see them as having greater status or power and thus see them as more "dominant'. So while I wouldn't say its normal, I don't think its that uncommon either.

  • Most women don’t like it but it’s not that unusual.

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  • I don't think it's very uncommon. Some people have moral problems with certain paraphilias, but remember that a fantasy is a fantasy, and you don't control what arouses you.

  • Uhm isn't that more of a interest not the "Normal" in general

  • Whether normal or not, you're not alone.

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  • No... but to each their own.

  • In the terms of sex, I think it's fine if you are both okay with it. Also, if it ain't too extreme, it can no hurt anyone.