Is it OK for a 19 year old to have sex with a 56 year old?

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  • Gross.
    What a messed up 19 year old.

  • Sure, it's legal. What people morally think about this is irrelevant.

  • Yeah, hell, I probably would...

  • Yeah it's ok

  • They're consenting adults, so yes.

  • I guess

  • Yes it is. That person is an adult.

  • 🤣🤣🤣 is not okay. Daang. That is almost grandpa or is. What are you watching to ask this 😆 bet some Jerry show.

    Must be a sugar daddy.

    • What if it's an old woman?

    • Not fair lol. But still I wouldn't. The furthest I have when I was 19 is 27 and when I was 21 with 33 but she didn't look 33 she look 25-26. BUT 56 HELL NAAA. 😆

    • Why is it not fair?

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  • The 56 year old sounds like a creep
    19 is like a child or could even be the grandchild if a 56 year old

  • I note there is no suggestion of gender in this question, and I'm going to say yes with either male or female in respective ages. As long as it's informed, and consensual, it's acceptable. It might not be ideal by societal standards, but as long as it's a situation formed by genuine mutual attraction, it's as valid as anyone else having sex. My only reservations regarding this situation would be if it were the result of manipulation or coercion. It might not seem like it, but a 19 year old is inexperienced in life, wet behind the ears, as some would say. By the time someone is 56, they will generally have a much better idea of what makes people tick, though, recalling Anna Nichole Smith, it's quite possible for a younger person to lure an older person, should they wish to.

  • It may seem creepy to some, but yes. Grateful 56 year old, I'd guess.

  • Assuming it's consensual I guess so, but 19 to 56? Who's trying to kill who?

  • yes, if it is of free and spontaneous will.

  • Yeee

  • No, age divided by two plus seven rule says no.

    • Divide by two and add seven? I kept getting it reversed. I really wish I would have kept that formula straight. It would have saved me a long beatdown filled lockup (oh yes, women in for those charges are in as much danger as men). All joking aside, I've only seen the inside of a courtroom for jury duty and traffic offenses, what if you're an age that isn't evenly divisible by two? (39/2) + 7 = 26.5. If I were still on the prowl the earliest a guy could be born according to the formula would be July 3, 1994. So I couldn't pursue a man born on July 4th of 1994 today? But tomorrow, since he will reach the 26.5 mark, he'd be fair game? And what happens on Valentine's Day when I turn 40 and the formula says 27? Someone who is 26.5 on February 13th of this year will have been born on August 13, 1994. Someone who turns 27 the day I turn 40 will have been born on February 14th, 1994. So if I meet someone with a DOB of 08/13/1994 at 11:59 PM on Feb. 13th do I have to rule him out just as soon as the clock strikes midnight? After all, the formula says 08/13/1994 will be fair game on 02/13/2021 but on 02/14/2021 that entire formerly legal range of 02/15/1994 to 08/13/1994 becomes off limits. Don't rely on formulas. According to the formula my 24 year old boyfriend is over two years too young for me, but I ain't kicking him out.

    • It is just a guideline like you should go to your mother's funeral or have red wine with red meat and white wine with white meat. Sure, it is legal to skip your mother's funeral to go eat chicken nuggets with sangria outside in the rain but that doesn't make it right.

  • Yeah, she/he is 18 or older.

  • Both are adults. As long as there's consent, who am i to say its wrong?

  • Only if they're in an unhealthy sugar baby relationship

  • Well, they are both over age 18 so don't see why it would be an issue?


  • No it’s not actually wrong, but odd you both would have the same views on life. Was money the strong interest at first?

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