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Sexual Health Girls, Is it ok for the woman to be the dominant person in the relationship?
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I have been with my girlfriend for about 18 months and lived with her for about a year. She is in a professional career with a job that pays very well for her age, she is physically very fit and strong and she knows what she wants in life. I guess im trying to say she is definitely an alpha woman. Around the house she is definitely the one in charge. Yes she is kind, funny, friendly and attentive to what I like and dont like. However in all aspects of our relationship including in the bedroom she is definitely the boss. I never considered myself a submissive personality. It just seems like her in charge was a natural relationship dynamic that occured between us and this is how it's ended up. Now I find myself happier with my girl being the dominant. She has challenged me to improve myself. I have a better job, im healthier and just have an overall better life because she has taken charge and given me direction in life. I am really just so in love with her. I know its not the social norm but do you think its ok if the woman is the dominant figure in the relationship? Have you ever witnessed a role reversal relationship like this and do you think it worked? My friends make jokes about me being pussy whipped all the time. However, I really just dont feel that way.
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What Girls Said
(23)Yes it is fine, as long as you are really truly ok with it
It's fine.
Every relationship is different, so yes, it's okay to do so.
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that. But that's just me.
As long as you're happy with her it doesn't matter.
I hoesntly don't get the whole dominant submissive concepts. My boyfriend and I equally share responsibilities and understand each other. Neither of us seek to dominate the other.
Actually in most relationships women are probably in charge, but more in disguise...
My boyfriend is a bit like you, but I don't like playing mommy all the time. I want hin to take charge once in a while.
I like the idea of generally being the dominate in the relationship. I think im just more attuned to approaching life and relationships as such. And the right man will hopefully do better without all the male social standards; ending up that much better happier and stronger a man in the areas i struggle in. Plus its attractive and alluring to have a somewhat submissive man.
all us girls want to be dominated. The problem here is the same as a problem I had with a few different boyfriends that im a strong woman so I need a stronger man. No girl likes a weepy mangina that can't fuck them worth a damme
If it works for you guys that's what matters. I like being submissive but if she likes being dominant that is her personal preference and thats awesome that it works for the both of you.
If both people in the relationship are comfortable with that, then nothing wrong with that. Who cares what the social norm is, if both are in a happy, loving relationship and that works for them.