Is it ok to force her sometimes to have sex?

[Anonymous]

[chris4fun]

Never ok to force... and remember people are allowed to change their minds when ever they want without a reason. So trying to have sex and her saying no then you going back to kissing and moving slower and giving her a chance to get more turned on and not say no this time is not forcing someone to have sex. If a woman can change a yes to a no anytime during sex then she can also change a no to a yes at anytime without reason. Its your job to get her to say yes. So many women turn down men at least once.

[jarofawesome]

I'm going to assume you meant "force" as in "guilt trip" or "beg" as in a the similar case to:

One of you is tired but the other one is really horny and so you try to convince the other person to have sex even though they are tired.

In that sense, yeah it is perfectly okay, but only if she does it to you too. And if she does this to you, but says it is not okay for you to guilt trip her then she is selfish and possibly sexist because usually the reasoning for that thought pattern is, "men are Always up for sex, so its okay to force horniness on him, he just needs a little coaxing"

If for some reason she is that hypocritical sexist type, then if she refuses to change her behavior after having a conversation about her unfairness, from that point on absolutely refuse to engage with her when she is horny and you don't feel like it for whatever reason. Leave the house if you absolutely have to.

[Asker]

I am finding that opinion bro it's like convince her seduce her to have sex and she does also same to ne

[RydiaMagnifique]

You say you don't mean rape, but forcing her is the exact definition of rape. God I wanna blow up this site, now, just by reading this crap. Who the fuck even words the question like this if they're not talking about rape?

[RydiaMagnifique]

And if you mean seduce, that's not force. Don't ever say force again if you're not talking about rape. Me and my fiance have our shared kink, but we have safe words, thus it's not real force, and it's always consensual. As a survivor of real rape, the way it was initially worded makes me wanna fucking douse myself with gasoline and light myself on fire and leave this shittu planet.

[Twalli]

Consensual nonconsent is entirely different. You likely agree to explore that kink each time you do it also.

[djmzes]

Simple

[Asker]

I am ready to being forcr by her lol

[djmzes]

Tell yourself Would you be happy if your daughter boyfriend forced her to have sex with him and she did not like it. Would you go and congrats that guy and give him a medal for that? If yes, go and force your girlfriend and bear the consequences. If no, go and do not force your girlfriend and bear the consequences.

[Asker]

I will not mind if she is okay with that like my girlfriend also want to have sex sometimes I force her but I don't make her helpless

[djmzes]

If something is agreed between you too, it is not something that is forced. Something consentual cannot be forced. That simple to understand.

[Asker]

Is it wrong to make her sex with me? i

[Shezadi]

It is between you and her.

[Quackthulu]

No you fucking idiot. Rape is never okay under any conditions.

[Asker]

It is not rape I don't fuck her like and also i don't tied or don't overpower her also we are husband wife

[Quackthulu]

It doesn’t matter if you are married dumbass no still means no.

[Asker]

Hey she never try to stop also I don't mean force by rape it's completely different

[Quackthulu]

Rape is any time you have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you. Period.

[waterniggbone]

He's saying that she likes it but doesn't feel completely right doing it

[jarofawesome]

If she seduces or convinces him into sex when he isn't in the mood, why can't he do the same to her?

[waterniggbone]

That's what I'm saying either way convincing someone isn't rape when the words "stop" "no" come into play that is rape

[RunawayGirl]

@waterniggbone unless it's the kink "rape play". Then it's only rape if their respective safe word is ignored.

[Quackthulu]

@RunawayGirl if that is the case the asker just sucks at expressing what he is trying to say. He hasn't said rape play, BDSM, or even role-play. He said he forces his wife to have sex. That makes it rape.

[RunawayGirl]

Ughhhh, I meant that as a hypothetical.

[Quackthulu]

@RunawayGirl Yeah… no shit

[waterniggbone]

Damn you have an attitude like a mf

[Quackthulu]

@waterniggbone if you think having a problem with rape means I have an additude problem you are a god damn idiot.

[Agape93]

I agree @Quackthulu. There’s a sea of difference between kinks and seduction, and rape.

[MrNameless]

It's never okay to "force" someone to have sex or any kind of sexual activity. It is considered rape, if not sexual assault. Don't ruin your reputation

[Fairyluna]

Assuming it's not rape and only inducing your partner to have sex: Maybe not the best idea because afterwards she may regret it and it beocme even harder to 'convince' her next time. If she is not doing with you as much as you'd like, try to talk to her and ask why is that. Maybe it's an underlining issue that is reducing her libido like insecury about herself, about the relationship, etc.
If it's rape: NO, absolutely not! That is a crime and can ruin people's lives.

[Roberta95]

No, any kind of force is never okay.

[Poppykate]

This is a grey area... 🤔... it depends on how long you have been with the person, status of relationship etc.. I think it’s ok to say to a husband or wife ‘hey, put out I’m in the mood’ (trying to keep it PG) ... sexuality really needs to be 18+

[longdong69]

Let's video chat

[TonyV]

Why would you ever use the word force?, you never force any sex dude, seduction isn't force, it's far from it

[Poppymarie]

No it’s never ok. Even between married couples sex should always be consensual.

[Asker]

It's consentual

[Poppymarie]

Why did you use the word “force” then? Even if your just manipulating/nagging her into saying yes, it’s still wrong. If you want her to have sex with you, try to make it appealing to her instead of forcing her.

[Asker]

It's like usually she want seduce me sometimes I seduce her but it's never a rape or something like that

[Poppymarie]

Seducing her is absolutely fine! There’s a big difference between seduction and forcing lol

[Lyndsielee666]

Definitely not

[A_Bell]

Some women have rape fantasies and if you mean to consensually enact one of those, then sure.

If you mean against her will, you should be in prison with your d*ck cut off.

[ecfresh]

Instead of that, seduce her.

[MotorcycleMan]

force and seduce and two very different things.
Force? Absolutely not ever. Period. Well, unless she is into that kind of thing and has explicitly told you this before hand.

[slatyb]

Seriously? that's rape.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Seducing doesn't mean forcing, it's making them fall into a temptation. You should never force anyone to do it.

[Agape93]

There is a VAST difference between seducing and forcing.

[Dargil]

Seduction is not force. It's persuasion.

[waterniggbone]

No never ever ever is it ok to force sex... unless you 2 have been talking about it and she likes it bc that is a kink

[chriscdi]

you mean rape, no its not okay

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Forcing her is rape.

[Makeushiver]

Never, it's against the law.