Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it okay that I’ve never had sex?
JimmieByron Xper 1
I am 20 and the idea scares me. Is that normal? I think guys are very cute and I do have a crush but the idea of becoming sexual is scary to me.
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16 53Yes. Why not?
Its perfectly natural. We all are before our first time
well your pic would help to make an inform decision
The idea of being that intimate and it getting thrown out the door and run over by a lawn mower or anything similar to how my past time has been. That turns me off completely from it. Needs to be a very specific relationship that I don't think exists really. I don't know I think can relate with you here tho.
Rest assured there is nothing wrong with sex. I only hope your dream guy treats you well.
everyone becomes comfortable at different times. even though sexual feelings are overwhelming, when you feel them remimd yourself its totally normal.
Yupp
Why is it scary? I don't get it
Its fine and nornal to be nervous
Yes it's perfectly fine.
Yes it’s ok. You shouldn’t do anything you’re not comfortable with until you’re ready.
It is okay
Good for you
Wait till you're ready
Ik the feeling of a scare from sexual things and that's completely fine especially when someone had a bad past on sexual topic and that's completely normal nothing to worry about
just remember one thing that has sex or something the same with someone u love and trust and also that understand you and your feelings
It's ok why does it scare you
Honestly, I’m not quite sure. I find guys very attractive, I just would be very nervous about it which I don’t think anyone would find appealing.
Everyone gets nervous I did for my first time. Have u thought about counselling
Yes it's fine. at least start sucking Dick. You will like it.
My first time was when I was 23. She was 27. She was the one that initiated. Had she not been the confident one to initiate it would have taken me more. I was very shy. I still am. It was great.
Don't worry. Try to work on that and you'll be fine. It doesn't matter if your first kisses are awkward take the whole thing as a learning experience. If it doesn't work out with the person you do it, sooner or later will work with someone else.
Good luck!
That is perfectly fine; don't have sex until you are ready.
You are adult, so do not afraid, jump in the pool