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Sexual Health Guys, is it okay to play with a guy's butt during sex?
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As in, his hole. Sometimes while I'm on top, he lets me play under his balls and I get to his whole, I never put my finger inside though. I know he sometimes he really likes when I play outside it and around it, but I feel like he's weird about liking it. I can tell he really enjoys it sometimes, he is the kind that loves being dominant and all that. I honestly don't mind putting my finger in there, he has done it to me before... But I'm scared because he might not like it, or I feel a bit weird about it myself unless he's completely comfortable with it. Guys, is this okay do girls ever do this to you?
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play with his hole* 😂
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I'm saying because the fact that he loves with I touch around it that he may like me putting it inside. The guys who said they don't like it probably don't like to even be touched near it! My guy loves when I touch around or on it, he even told me how good it feels. I'm just scared about putting it in, because I feel like when I was almost about to one time, he sort tensed up
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What Guys Said
(22)I have a hemorrhoid so no.
Slow and gentle wins the race. I'd get some lube too. It can be enjoyable especially while receiving head. Apparently the male G spot is located somewhere in the rectum or around it.
But again, SLOW AND GENTLE. Some guys like it and some don't, just give it a shot
i'm not into that shit.
I don't mind.
Yes its okay.
if there is lube then yes. not inside but around.
I hate that.
I would talk about it with him first. My girlfriend asked if she could put her finger in my butt. I said yes because I was willing to try it out with her and I thought it felt great.
Yeah. Just start slow and see how it goes. Suck your finger and tickle his hole while your blowing him and eventually slip it in.
It depends on the guy. Give it a try, and if he reacts negatively, you know to avoid doing that again. It's really not a big deal.