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My friend told me that's not cause he is your boyfriend and he is the only one who is allowed to have sex with you.
My boyfriend and I had sex and he wanted to try anal ( we once talked about it and i said no) I'm disgusted even of the thought of it.
Last time while having sex he changed the position and tried to enter my asshole. I SHOUTED NO and tried to push him back. He pushed my shoulders down and said" we should try something new so our sex life won't get boring. And I'm your boyfriend anyways so you should at least try it for me." I really didn't even want to try it but he kept pushing me down and penetrate. It hurted so badly and I laid there frozen in shook.
i told my "friend"about It and she said that it was just a misunderstanding. And you tried it so now you don't have to do it again. He didn't rape you because you were already in the act."
she once even told me a man can't penetrate if a woman doesn't want it. (That would speak against EVERY rape victim but that's another story)
I broke up with him after that. The next step is to go to the police but she said that it will do nothing cause of the pints she stated earlier.
Am I wrong? Am I overreacting? Was it just a misunderstanding?
What Girls & Guys Said
15 23no means no- pure and simple
the sad aspect if you want to take it further is the shades of grey that come into play with you being a couple. which would make it tough if you want to press charges.
the bottom line is the guy is a disrespectful bellend. and you should tell him to fuck off for it is obvious he has no respect for you
Yes if it's not consensual it's rape regardless of your personal relationship even if you are married
Yes and vice versa as well
This is dicey, on one hand it's rape and another it is not because you were already having sex with him. You will have hard time proving this.
That IS rape
No means no and that is probably rape, go to the police and they/the courts can decide if it's rape
Your consent matter with whomever you are with
You're being overdramatic for nothing!
He just did this to you because you refuse to satisfy him (which is your role, since you're the female). Next time be more opne to it and let your boyfriend have that ass properly.
Of course that It's posible
The minute you say 'no' it becomes rape.. I really hope you get away from the guy and people like your friend..
If any dude doesn't respect your consent, the fact you said no, and does it anyway, it's rape/sexual assualt/molestation whatever you wanna call it, it's not right. Leave his ass. This is a huge warning red flag. He will disrespect your wishes again and again and again.
No means no.
It's definitely important that you two work t9gether to please each other, so maybe you guys need to work together to find a solution to that kind of sex? Maybe start smaller and work your way up to what he wants so it feels natural and comfortable. If he doesn't respect that, get out asap
If he is already your boyfriend and you're fucking, it's not rape.
So you agree with my friend?
You should be a good girlfriend and let your boyfriend have any hole. Why would anyone want you if they can't have it all? It's all or nothing.
Exactly. If he is my boyfriend then he has right to have my body the way he wants
You trolls really fucking suck.
Yes you're friend is more than right. He had the right to fuck your hole. It already happened so just move on.