Is it possible to be a virgin forever? Do you think I’ll make it?
Tbh I’m very uncomfortable with anything sexual i don’t really know y. I haven’t even had my first kiss. A lot of my friends tell me I won’t make it like I’m going to lose it and love it. Like yea I talk sexual but it’s different because I know I won’t do anything.
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What Girls & Guys Said
36 104Don't force yourself into anything your not ready for
Yeah, it's possible.
As for you, maybe.
You just never know what the future holds.
First of all, it's unhealthy for a sexually mature person to be uncomfortable with issues of a sexual nature, therefore, physical problems, or a lack of experience in such matters, should be addressed.
Second if you define virginity in a way that is comparable to the outcome you want to achieve, then yes, is possible. Just don't expect everyone around you to share that definition.
Possible, yes... Choices to engage or not engage are made daily. There are strong willed individuals that don't view sex as the center of
their existence and universe.
Hats off to them that keep their commitments.
You have free will.
I'm the one that's got to die when it's time for me to die, so let me live my life the way I want to.
... James Marshall Hendrix
If you plan to be single for the rest of your life
Yes it is possible if you don't marry or marry someone who is asexual. Maybe you are asexual too.
But if you are not then you should try sex once and not with some random person but with someone close like your future husband. Sex is a very pure thing. But people talk dirty and do kinky stuff just to make it more erotic but it's not necessary.
Though you can be virgin
Sure, but it's incredibly unlikely, especially for a woman and especially if she's attractive.
What do you mean by especially a women?
Women have a lot more opportunities for sex so it's rare for a girl to be a virgin past a certain age and even rarer for her to be one indefinitely.
Ain’t it the same for both genders not just a girl
It's rare for both genders but more rare for women.
Y bc of there “body” Wel that’s a lie a lot of girls actually know how to say no.
You're just 18 lol
Soo many people my age lost it Half my friends got kids
That's not an example you should follow. Unless you got a stable income, finished school and have educated yourself on how to raise your child, possibly with your parents, already.
No I was just telling u that it dosent matter that I’m 18 but I know I don’t want kids yet
That's very possible.
Possible? Sure if that's what you really want. All i would say, i was 35 before i had my first kiss and lost my virginity. For me, i regret the years i went without. I had interests and friends but i felt something missing. I've now been in a relationship for 2 years now, i have a son, life is better.
Aww that’s great!!
It's as possible as your will is strong
If you make it a mission I'm sure you can remain a virgin forever. If an opportunity for sex arises I hope you will try it. If you are conflicted it may help to have a discussion with your doctor.
Maybe you’re asexual? That’s perfectly fine, you don’t have to do anything you don’t want to do. But I do think it’s gonna be hard for you to find a partner if you aren’t willing to do anything sexual tbh
I think I am😳
😔* sorry meant this one because I’m not that happy about it tbh
I seen so many asexuals on GaG
Why doe GaG attract them?
Because no human can?
What
Did u just say us asexual people can’t get anyone? Lol not true I hang out with boys that like me and would have Alex with me I just don’t want to I don’t know if I’m asexual yet or I’m just shy
@deadroses18 You contradicted yourself. You said "Did u just say us asexual people can’t get anyone?" You then said "I don’t know if I’m asexual yet or I’m just shy." Seems like you have something to work out with yourself.
Save yourself for someone who's worth it 💕
bet you i can last longer, winner gets a pencil
Ok then the bet is on
Lmao love how y’all act like girls can’t be virgins for more longer then guys u know there’s somthing called asexual 🤣
well in that case im fucked but maybe not, thats not fair, you are cheating 🙃
You're barely past childhood, and you just haven't met the right guy.
Give yourself time to actually grow up into womanhood. Seriously.
My mom says I am a women
Perhaps physically, but you're still just a little girl inside. And instead of doing the work to become a viable woman, you fuss and whine about being a virgin.
I’m not fussing about it I’m just scard
And to become a women I don’t have to lose my virginity
Living life scared is a waste. If you need a shrink then ask for one. You're behavior is not normal, and your fears are unfounded.
That’s not true a lot of people are scared at first
I have the right to not want to lose my virginity that dosent make me weird
You're confuzzled. Oh well. Guess that's why you're here, but then you claim to know everything already. Good luck with that.
Your 63 don’t worry about it👍 if u can’t say somthing nice then stop talking 🤣
You don't get to make the rules you smart-mouthed little bitch. FUCK OFF.
Well ur being mean to me for no respect ur acting like a little ass kid🤣
It is possible the question is just is that conform with the life u want. Because one day u might get a partner u love and the chances r 0,0001% that he is fine without having sex. Also u can’t have a baby etc
I’m in no rush to find someone I’m focused on me and that is not true u can have a child you can adopte a child
Adopting is a good thing and I consider it myself but it’s not the same and u might get a partner who wants to make kids
Y isn’t it the same?
Make a poll on here. Most people will vote that it isn’t the same
Well it should be the same u should love the kid you adopted the same way you love ur own and y I’m saying this is Becuse I’m adopted.
Sure u should love it the same way but is it really the same? If it’s ur child u have memories starting at birth. It looks similar to u and ur partner These r the main differences I’d say
No it should always be the same u should never even say that becuse as a adopted kid this qu has fucked with my head but I know my parents love me there are many people that adopted kids and love them as there own if that’s ur option then fine but this is mine so there is no point of trying to keep saying more stuff.
I never said that it isn’t possible to love an adopted kid the same way. I only pointed out that there r differences that r important to some people in this world (not me but these people exist) The differences that exists r facts and not arguably lol
Possible? Yes.
But it will very frustrating.
Not if I’m asexual 🤷🏻♀️