Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Is it possible to be a virgin forever? Do you think I’ll make it?
deadroses18 Xper 4
Tbh I’m very uncomfortable with anything sexual i don’t really know y. I haven’t even had my first kiss. A lot of my friends tell me I won’t make it like I’m going to lose it and love it. Like yea I talk sexual but it’s different because I know I won’t do anything.
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What Girls & Guys Said
36 104I think you can make it.. if you made it so far.. once you get use to it, it is difficult or might get addicted. Better stay as you are.. good for you if you don’t like it.. nothing wrong or right in this..
sure it's "possible" but very unlikely. by the way: the fear of it doesn't get better the longer you don't have it xD
I know and that’s why if I stay one for longer then I will be more scared and won’t do it
when you find someone worth your time, the fear will be secondary.
I don’t let people love me that’s another reason I feel like I’ll be one forever becuse I don’t let people love me I feel uncomfortable when people hold my hand I don’t like hugs I just get awkward maybe I’m not normal and u would think that I prolly don’t have love but I love so much people just not enough for that
no that's pretty normal. there's many people like this. it's some minor personal growth issue. allowing someone to get close to you to maybe develop feelings for them automatically hands them the power to hurt you pretty badly. that's something a lot of people are rightfully scared of. but that's just the risk you gotta take. love doesn't come without that risk. and and some point, you'll figure it's worth it. you will probably get hurt but you'll learn to stand back up again. you'll realize it's not that bad and from then it's smooth sailing :D experience makes live better. don't hide from gathering it. learning to be vulnerable is a tough lesson for most people.
what if I do have sex and I become a hoe or somthing that’s scary I wonder how porn stars are so open about there body
XD it's not like you have sex and suddenly you're a whore. you have full control of your life in that regard.
Truee well thanks
Jeeez u seem really mean on ur comments to the other girls🤣
what do you mean?
How about you not listen to them, and you just wait until you feel comfortable? Until you are with a man you love? Those who do wait, in particular those who do it because they value sex and they want to do it with someone they love, always say it's worth it
It’s very much possible u don’t need to have sex to be happy
If you want to.
Why don’t you get yourself a husband
Because I’m young for comment I’m not ready
I mean when you’re older
What if I don’t want to marry
Then you’ll be single for the rest of your life you might as will be a nun then
... you can... not marry and still not be single? And do you genuinely believe that life is so pointless without a relationship that someone should shut themselves away in a convent?
Sounds like you're asexual, so unless that changes than Id say you have a good chance of remaining a virgin forever.
Yes. I had a co-worker who was said to have died a virgin at age 59.
You mean possible for YOU? I don't know, only you can answer that.
Its no biggie being one or not. Whatever you feel comfortable with is best. Don't let others pressure you.
It is possible and perhaps even likely if you are not sexually attracted to men.
I am attracted to men
In that case, it is unlikely that you will remain a virgin much past the age of 22. By that age, the attractive guys you date would be more experienced and would be putting pressure on and likely you would want to please them. Also, unlike guys near your current age, you would discover that the older guys you are attracted to would stop calling you to date girls that do. Therefore, by your mid twenties, you would come to the conclusion that what you doing isn't working; especially if you had already lost several guys that you found exceptionally attractive.
Noo this is a lie if I am asexual nothing will change my mind I have chilled with guys I like and they told me to suck there dick and I said no because it is my choice and I know how to say no for myself no one should be pressuring anyone and if they are then we have the right to say no
Some people just don’t understand how some people don’t want sex because now In days y’all think people have to have sex and that everyone enjoys it it’s not true just becuse half of u guys can’t say no dosent mean I can’t
You just gotta find a guy who'll be patient and gentle with you. But you'd have to be willing too, of course.
Thank you!
Yes , it depends on your lifestyle...
Don't think about it too much, it's your virginity, losing it is no big deal to anyone but yourself so take it slow and don't rush anything so you don't regret it at one point
Tank you!!!
Thank*
I just read your replies and I just wanna say that this is all natural, my ex was the same until she met me, she was rarely turned on by porn and barely any guy got her "excited" before she met me, I apparently made her explode with all those emotions Just wait, you'll find the right person, don't do anything you're not comfortable with, whatever society tells you
If you die tomorrow sure. When they tell you it gets easier oh trust me in my early 20's biggest lie ever.
I'm a male virgin, and I'm proud of it. But other people I know are not proud for me.
You’re a girl so you can pretty much lose it anytime you want. You just need to gain some confidence so you can start taking action. I guarantee you won’t be a virgin forever. That’s nonsense.
Being a girl has nothing to do with it
Then you don’t know men
What do u mean?
One of my aunts died a virgin
Why not.. i dnt see why
You would feel differently if you had a guy who dint rush you an you really cared for him an he made you feel no rush for sex an helped you feel comfortable with everything about your self