Is it possible to have sex if the man's penis isn't erect?
mistixsInfluencer
In an episode of Parks and Recreation (I'll post the clip in an update), there was a sex education class for elderly people. They were being taught how to use condoms to protect from STDs, using a banana. One old man said, "What if the banana is soft and mushy and dangles sharply to the left?" My question is: Can men even have sex if they're soft? I never thought that was possible.
I have no idea
Vote A
It's possible to engage in intercourse when soft.
Vote B
Intercourse isn't possible, but it's possible for the man to receive oral (fellatio).
Vote C
Neither intercourse nor fellatio are possible if a man is soft.
I'm sure you could make it happen, probably wouldn't be fun though. Apply enough force to anything and it will penetrate.
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sawnoMaster
+1 y
I am able to orgasm without being fully erect in cases where i was close to orgasm before. Not sure if it would work with intercourse but i could technically cum that way but only under rare circumstances where my buildup time is very low.
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Kaneki05Master
+1 y
Yes and no. Because yes you can but it won't be anything like what sex is.
i mean you can put it in. But it ain't gonna be sex.
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jogger1613Xper 4
+1 y
It's possible to rub your soft penis against parts of another person, including vagina, hand, mouth, etc. As long as he is enjoying it, it doesn't matter if he's hard or not... it's still sex.
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LovingJoXper 7
+1 y
Depending on how big his appendage is, yes it can be possible!!
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GoodGuyBreakingBadMaster
+1 y
I imagine oral sex is possible but that's about it
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andreasderjuengereMaster
+1 y
With a flat tyre you don't go driving. However, you can improvise:
I guess, it's possible to stuff a soft noodle in, but where is the fun?
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BillieJean1070Guru
+1 y
Have you ever tried stuffing a marshmallow into a piggy jar?
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KatherineJ
+1 y
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MannySimmsXper 7
+1 y
He'd have to push it in with a finger, or you could. But what's the point?
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Anpu23Master
+1 y
There was a case a few years ago where a man wasn't able to get it up, so she shoved a stick down his urethra. But except for very unusual circumstances it's not possible.
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msc545
+1 y
That is dangerous as hell. Don't try it.
Anpu23
+1 y
@msc545 it wasn't his choice. She was forcing him and he couldn't get it up. She shoved a stick in and destroyed his urethral tract.
msc545
+1 y
Ouch. That had to be really horrible.
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Anpu23
+1 y
@msc545 yup, and still can't call it rape.
nealwilliams224Xper 6
+1 y
I think that while intercourse would be difficult (if not impossible), fellatio done properly is possible. I have nothing to back this up, but it seems like this would be the case.
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nealwilliams224
+1 y
Interesting question though...🤔🤔🤔 More research is needed!!! 🤣🤣
Nik1hilMaster
+1 y
It depends on penis..
If a guy is shower... Fellatio is possible but not intercourse...
But if a guy is grower, neither is possible.. I am grower... My flaccid can shrink down to 2 inches.. But erect is more than 6 inches.. And super turned on Erection can be 7 inches... I know.. Weird !..
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chriscdiMaster
+1 y
i tried jerking off with my nonerected penis and it took forever
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MeropatrickExplorer
+1 y
No, penetration Isn’t possible and pleasing the woman too. (Despite that is not possible in most circumstances)😂
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TheophainXper 4
+1 y
You could still dry hump the male but they won't get off if they can't get it up, if that still counts as sex then yes otherwise I'm not sure.
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Aaron_Stone
+1 y
well its totally possible to get off without getting erect
Theophain
+1 y
Nice, then it can still count as sex.
MassagemanEditor
+1 y
If by "sex" you mean "PIV coital intercourse", then yes, but it will become increasingly difficult as most men age.
If she is just going to grind against you, no problem either way.
As far as manual or oral stimulation, it IS possible to be stimulated to the point of ejaculation without being substantially erect. Engorgement of the penis and the triggering of the ejaculatory impulse can be very separate issues. If vibrated in the correct manner, you WILL ejaculate within a minute or two - that's literally 60 to 120 seconds- and you will NOT be able to stop it. You might even be shooting blanks, but your gun WILL fire.
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22 75I'm sure you could make it happen, probably wouldn't be fun though. Apply enough force to anything and it will penetrate.
I am able to orgasm without being fully erect in cases where i was close to orgasm before. Not sure if it would work with intercourse but i could technically cum that way but only under rare circumstances where my buildup time is very low.
Yes and no. Because yes you can but it won't be anything like what sex is.
i mean you can put it in. But it ain't gonna be sex.
It's possible to rub your soft penis against parts of another person, including vagina, hand, mouth, etc. As long as he is enjoying it, it doesn't matter if he's hard or not... it's still sex.
Depending on how big his appendage is, yes it can be possible!!
I imagine oral sex is possible but that's about it
With a flat tyre you don't go driving.
However, you can improvise:
I guess, it's possible to stuff a soft noodle in, but where is the fun?
Have you ever tried stuffing a marshmallow into a piggy jar?
🤣🤣🤣🤣
He'd have to push it in with a finger, or you could. But what's the point?
There was a case a few years ago where a man wasn't able to get it up, so she shoved a stick down his urethra. But except for very unusual circumstances it's not possible.
That is dangerous as hell. Don't try it.
@msc545 it wasn't his choice. She was forcing him and he couldn't get it up. She shoved a stick in and destroyed his urethral tract.
Ouch. That had to be really horrible.
@msc545 yup, and still can't call it rape.
I think that while intercourse would be difficult (if not impossible), fellatio done properly is possible. I have nothing to back this up, but it seems like this would be the case.
Interesting question though...🤔🤔🤔 More research is needed!!! 🤣🤣
It depends on penis..
If a guy is shower... Fellatio is possible but not intercourse...
But if a guy is grower, neither is possible.. I am grower...
My flaccid can shrink down to 2 inches..
But erect is more than 6 inches..
And super turned on Erection can be 7 inches...
I know.. Weird !..
i tried jerking off with my nonerected penis and it took forever
No, penetration Isn’t possible and pleasing the woman too. (Despite that is not possible in most circumstances)😂
You could still dry hump the male but they won't get off if they can't get it up, if that still counts as sex then yes otherwise I'm not sure.
well its totally possible to get off without getting erect
Nice, then it can still count as sex.
If by "sex" you mean "PIV coital intercourse", then yes, but it will become increasingly difficult as most men age.
If she is just going to grind against you, no problem either way.
As far as manual or oral stimulation, it IS possible to be stimulated to the point of ejaculation without being substantially erect. Engorgement of the penis and the triggering of the ejaculatory impulse can be very separate issues. If vibrated in the correct manner, you WILL ejaculate within a minute or two - that's literally 60 to 120 seconds- and you will NOT be able to stop it. You might even be shooting blanks, but your gun WILL fire.
So I guess B/C.
It has to be hard to put it in.
No. It really isn't
Yes its possible, not pleasurable really
Not possible
I agree