Is it really that difficult to suck a penis?

Question

The girl I’m seeing right now sucks at oral sex.

She only sucks the top.
She sucks it very slow
she uses her hand

& her mouth barely grips the penis..

I mean come on..
it can’t be that difficult..
The head of a penis is no bigger than 2 inches
i know you can get past that...
I know your mouth can grip tighter than that..

chrissykerdock · Accepted Answer

it's not difficult it's willingness to do certain things... sometimes i do slow and modest deep not deep throat but i'm thrusting at least midway while licking kissing and sucking his penis... sometimes deep throat or at least let him control the deepness and speed he wants... after a time or two they no longer control that or not at all... i've been sucking cock for 20+ years so i get the hang of it plus i've always been complimented on my blowjobs

kyleelyn199723 · Accepted Answer

It’s only hard if she doesn’t like doing it. The more you like doing it, the better you get at it.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Sounds like this is the perfect opportunity for you to teach her. Let her know what you like and show her. Make sure you keep it positive or she will hate giving BJs.

For example, say "Stroke it while you lick the tip." Don't say, "No no no, suck it deep."

It may also help to go down on her first and get her in the mood.

Fireguy17 · Accepted Answer

I've never tried it, but on the plus side I haven't been with someone that hasn't been that good at it.
Maybe, if she would be into it watch a couple of videos on blow jobs, might be easier than describing how to do it.
She may be very new at it, or had a horrible teacher that didn't know any better.

NamerOfStars · Answer

Difficult? No, but it's not instinctive. It's a skill that has to be learned- what kind of feedback are you giving her? Are you offering instruction and suggestions?

RobT312 · Answer

Teach her what you like

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Have you tried talking to her about it? tried teaching her slowly how you like it, point out where it feels good? You asked her where she likes being Licked etc best?

spartan55 · Answer

It's funny because they all claim to give the greatest blowjobs ever... 🤣🤣... eh... no?

summiter · Answer

Enjoy that you are getting head. It is better then jerking off!

wittymilf · Answer

It’s difficult to do anything new without direction.. girls aren’t born with a natural dick sucking skill. Dudes enjoy different things but also some people have sensitive gag reflex… we’ve all chucked on a dick once in our lives 🤷‍♀️

xwmiku · Answer

She doesn't have a penis so she doesn't know what she's doing. Help her learn - tell her what you like. That's the part that's not hard. In this situation, you are the problem my friend.

josephinelcajon · Answer

It sounds like she is not happy doing it but feels pressured or obligated and sounds like you are the reason. Do some serius soul searching!

Dargil · Answer

There are skill sets associated with a productive BJ.

Hangry06 · Answer

Maybe it's smelly. It is kind of disgusting

rcljr · Answer

She needs to watch some porn, I swear some of those chicks could throat a fire hydrant

PuNishant · Answer

Guys give better blow job 😂

BobbyC65 · Answer

You need to help her out give her some guidance on how you want her to suck your penis. 💞

Neosporin · Answer

lol this is so funny i don't know why. it's like so close but still not satisfying enough haha what an aggravation

Iknowbestgirls · Answer

She probably doesn't like sucking dick Dood but does what she is comfortable with for you anyways. Maybe tell. her to try more she might try more to your liking if you just communicate with her. You shouldn't be so hard on her, putting her on blast like that.