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Sexual Health Is it true when my new boyfriend says he can't cum with a condom on?
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We been having sex but he wants to be bare. I'm 18 so I don't know and never heard this before. he's 19 and says he hates condoms and can't cum. So do I let him? I want to make him happy/
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4 38Get a new boyfriend
He can cum using condoms if he's willing to. It doesn't feel nearly as good with a condom on though.
Condoms really do reduce the pleasure a ton, I get what he says, but that doesn't mean he's entitled to raw sex. Care for pregnancy and diseases.
Using a condom really sucks.
He is definitely lying to you, it takes longer to come because the condom insulates some of the sensitivity but guys will still cum, just last longer which is a good thing.
It does reduce sensitivity, so that is true for some men.
All guys want sex without a condom but he is lying to you. Just pure bullshit. Keep using the condom and do not fall for those lines. Keep yourself protected. If he keeps pressuring you then he doesn't respect you and move on.
The great thing here is you want to make him feel happy and though he is a new one. Whats a caveat in happiness is it should not turn out to be disaster for someone, ignorantly even if it happens then all the parties involve must tackle.
No, It is nut true.
I hate condom!
He will cum inside you
Take care
Lot's of guys have this problem. I have hard time to get eraction when i try to put on a condom
We men all hate condoms. There is no contact, no enjoyment of your wet fleshy insides. Get on the pill and enjoy full contact.
Its lie
Some guys can’t. My ex never could and I usually just ended up letting him pull out instead.
It's your body so you make the rules. If he can't cum tell him to wear a condom and pull out after you cum. Then have him remove it and jerk off onto you, or finish him with your hands or mouth.
I reallt hate condoms and most girls are ok to let me go raw
No. While it's true that condoms dull the feeling a little bit, he's really just being a big baby. He's lying and making an excuse to trick you into being irresponsible. Make him wear the condom or tell him no sex. I'm sure neither of you want to have a child right now and I imagine you don't want to catch whatever he's carrying from learning that he "can't cum with a condom on."