Is it weird he only wants to fuck three times a week?

So I've been seeing this guy, I'm 21, and he's like 22 but has a job. He only typically tries to hangout three times a week. Last week he wanted to hang Wed, Fri, and Sat, but I couldn't Sat so the last time we fucked was four days ago. Is this suspicious? Like I'd have sex every night but I also I don't have a job lmao. Thoughts?
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  • No, that is not weird. I do not know if this is because I am a lot more mature, busy and worn out now. But I think three, four times tops a week is normal. People who do it every night will eventually cut down to three or so days anyway. Younger people normally have more sex, because we didn't have crap to do but jump on the bus and go do it somewhere and then go to the recording studio. When I moved into my own place and started working, I didn't have much time for Bfs who had his own place, sometimes my ex would be poking me to get out out of my sleep because he wants sex, too tired, spirit leaving body, seeing the light and dude wants sex, so glad I live alone now.

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  • offer him blowjobs each time you meet most men would be open to that

Most Helpful Guys

  • It could be that he has to go to bed early and get up early. If that is the case, welcome to the working life.
    Otherwise maybe he has a low libido, which is odd for a 22yo. Or he is just really into his job and that goes back to the first sentence.

    • Thanks for the MHO :)

  • He may be tied up with work. Do not measure things on how often you have sex but the quality instead. Maybe tell him you want to see him more often for sex. He is a guy and should appreciate it. Do you go for round 2 or 3 when you are together?

    • good call. and no unfortunately we don't! it's very frustrating

    • Have u talked to him about it? It is ok to talk about sex after all...

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  • I wouldn't read too much into it. I would love to see my guy 3xs a week but dont currently. And yes work and other demands may limit his free time.

  • Is he your boyfriend? 3x a week with someone you aren't living is completely normal. He has a job, and is maybe busy and gets tired? He's probably just totally fine with 3x a week and needs time for himself.

  • In my experience it is quite unusual that the guy wants only three times a week have sex. I guess you should ask him for the reason.

  • So. . . you don't have a job and all you want to do is fuck. He has a job and wants to fuck three times and you are suspicious that. . . he has another source of pussy? This really doesn't sound like anything very serious.

  • Nah when you work you get tired and having sex everyday gets hard after a while. Your dick is just constantly sore

  • Are you committed? You have to have that talk with him if your concern is that he is with other women.

  • I'd say 3 times a week is pretty normal

  • Looking at your age and his it’s weird

  • Hmmm... Kind of hard to tell, how is the sex?

  • You have seam to have a high labito if you think having sex 3 times a week is not often enough

  • Normal I think.
    We do weekend twice a day

  • No that’s pretty regular

  • why not you both live together? then you can do

  • If he works full time he could be tired.

  • Smells like a Troll in here!

  • Haha totally normal. I only have sex with my girl like once a month. I prefer it that way though

  • it’s weird that you are asking this question

  • Sounds kinda normal id work very hard daily but id fucked a pretty girl your age at least twice daily😘😘

  • It sounds like he is making time for you, keeping time for himself and balancing a job. Be happy you get that much.

  • 3 times is average i dont think so its too less or more

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