Is it weird I'm not attracted to or date guys my age?

Question

I can't really see guys under 30 as that attractive or manly, they're just like boys. Does anyone else have this problem?

Gagname · Accepted Answer

It’s not weird…

Everyone’s different and has different preferences, and different views on what’s “normal/usual/too much/too kinky,” etc.

Don't worry too much what people think about what YOU think, say, and do; instead, you be comfortable with all of that. Said another way…

”You do you.”

ZSean · Accepted Answer

Not really weird to be attracted to older people. Mostly it is because you like you said. Usually with age more maturity comes with. Which is usually attractive.

That being said a lot of older guys and women can and do use their age to manipulate people pretttty often. So be careful

GenaBaby1995 · Accepted Answer

Love older guys just remember usually both of you are deep down in the relationship for different reasons!

That being said go for it & they are usually much more appreciative with being with a hot young woman. Now if he isn't treating you like a princess drop him you find any older guy quick!

PrettyPriya · Accepted Answer

Weird? Not really. You have a preference. Perhaps you find older guys more mature and stable in life.

Personally, I try and date in my age range. My SO is about a year older so pretty close. However, he is financially stable and has a great job/career. Both of us do.

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yeah I find that as well.

Berethor · Answer

I am a guy so I don't have that problem. :)

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

I'm the same in that I don't see boys under 30 as attractive in any way, but then I don't see guys of 30 or upwards as attractive either.

YoHoeRose · Answer

Not weird at all my boyfriend's 35 I'm obsessed!

DonkeyDan · Answer

I'm not attracted to guys my age either lolYeah it's totally understandable to you'd rather have someone mature and stable.

20yearsolder · Answer

Absolutely not, that would make your normal. Everybody has different preferences

AvaOneLasTime · Answer

Its not a problem, its a preference. My boyfriend is 28. Legally, being 18yo. you can date whoever the FUCK you want/like. Its all up to you.

IM_SAM2 · Answer

Age difference must be 3 to 4 years.. Bigger age difference may create problems in future

bowenw · Answer

There is no normal. Date whoever you like.

Blackcupcake · Answer

I don’t have a specific limit but yes, I prefer older men as well

exitseven · Answer

Daddy issues?

humanearth · Answer

No its actually very common. Its not my cup of tea, but its very common

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Lots of women are like that.

JessicaShorts8834 · Answer

@cumaddict8 not at all more experience the sex is much better in my opinion every guy have done is much older than me 😘

Kabluie · Answer

Normal things, women like guys with power and a direction in life.

one1wild00 · Answer

No, you aren't weird, there are a lot of gals that like older guys, at the same time there are gals that like guys in a range near their age and then there are gals that like the guys younger than them. final assessment, no you aren't 'weird".