Is it weird that I like dicks but I hate sex?

[HannahHehe]

Basically I'm into dicks as I mentioned before that I highly enjoy playing with dicks to the point where the guy climax.

Recently some of my friends especially the new ones were asking me to have sex with them since they are naked in front of me while I enjoy touching and stroking their dicks. I hate sex so I kept telling them no and obviously they can't force it but what made me feel sad, they kept calling me a weirdo hypocrite girl just for refusing sex while accepting to play with their dicks.

They said you're into dicks and you let us put our dick between your thighs even though you're fully clothed but you don't want sex which make no sense and it makes me look like a hypocrite weirdo.

I'm totally stunning by that, if i only enjoy dicks without sex, does it make me a hypocrite weirdo girl?

[sawno]

They should be happy your willing to play with their dick to begin with. If they don't respect your boundry find another dick to play with.

[HannahHehe]

That's a good point

[GMANN56]

Hell, it's your life. And I like weirdo girls anyway. If I knew a weirdo girl that
liked to jerk me off? she would be a good friend.

[HannahHehe]

I like your answer and I'm indeed a good friend to my friends

[GMANN56]

Then they are indeed lucky

[HannahHehe]

They are good friends as well for allowing me to do that without expecting me to let them do anything on me

[GMANN56]

That would be difficult because I would have a hard time not touching you.

[chrissykerdock]

you may think about giving them blowjobs at least they'd get to cum

[sawno]

Guys can cum from handjobs without issue typically.

[chrissykerdock]

@sawno they like blowjobs better and rather cum in your mouth typically

[HannahHehe]

I got to understand this blowjob thing from another answers and no I wouldn't do that to anyone, I only find it fun to use my hands to play with their dicks and sometimes some of them reach climax or like you call it start to cum. Also I touch their dick for my own joy not for them so yeah

[Guy13]

What about meeting them half way? Do you enjoy stroking with your tongue? A blow job is not sex.

[HannahHehe]

With my tongue? Eww no I just touch their dicks with my hands.

[Guy13]

Okay then, your lips…. you like to kiss 💋, right

[HannahHehe]

I don't get you at all

[Honest-Matt]

It's not weird, there's no rule book to your feelings. Trust yourself. I'm kind of intrigued as to why you're playing with your 'friends' dicks in a group. I think their intentions are more on convincing you to have sex than what is best for you. If you don't want to have sex, you don't have to especially if you just aren't feeling up for it. I will echo what some are saying, experiencing something new is always a good life development but that has to be on your terms.

[HannahHehe]

To make it clear, I don't play with my friends dicks in a group or at the same time. It's always only 1 friend with me which means I meet a lot of friends all the time.

[SladeTannon]

Is a little weird, sure, but we all are. Although it's probably due to just having bad sex in the past. On the other hand, those guys are bitches.

[HannahHehe]

But does it make me hypocrite?

[SladeTannon]

No, not at all. You do what you're comfortable with.

[Red_Arrow]

I don't see anything hypocritical about it, but it is weird. You like handling dicks and looking at them, and you like making guys cum. So you have an interest is sex. It is weird that you do not go a bit farther and enjoy the pleasure real sex can bring you. If that is your thing, then enjoy it. I am sure the guys enjoy it. But it would be more satisfying for both of you if you were to actually have sex.

[HannahHehe]

No no no I don't have any interests in sex and never did. It's satisfying and so much fun to play with their dicks so I don't see the point in sex or other things which you mentioned.

[IMuser]

Weird, yes.
Is it bad? Absolutely not.
Be straight and tell this to the guy "the only thing I need is to play with your dick, don't expect sex from me in any condition. If you can accept that, then get naked and let me play"

[HannahHehe]

That's exactly what I told him as I made it clear that I would do that without sex and it doesn't mean that I want sex, most of my friends accepted me for who I'm and allowed me to do it without asking me to do something on me.

[IMuser]

Well then have fun

[spartan55]

It's very odd. Is there a reason?

[spartan55]

Downvote for this? Lol...

[HannahHehe]

Wasn't helpful opinion

[spartan55]

Your question: "is it weird that I Iike dicks but I hate sex?" I answered your question. If you want a more 'helpful opinion' then put a little more effort, context, detail in your question.

[HannahHehe]

I lifrtally wrote a whole paragraph saying it in details but you only read the topic lol

[spartan55]

I read all of it, gimme a break. None of your whole paragraph answered my follow up question, which I asked to form my opinion.

[Berethor]

If you are a technical virgin then it can make you look like a hypocrite.

https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/TechnicalVirgin

[HannahHehe]

Uhh.. :c

[abc3643]

It is odd. Why do you hate sex?

[HannahHehe]

That's a hard question to answer if I'm being honest, I never found it interesting and I would definitely cry if I was having sex so I'm not sure how to answer your question.

[abc3643]

That's OK young lady, but you love to play with penises! ... and testicles? This is all very fascinating to me!

[slatyb]

You like what you like. If you are happy then no one else gets a vote.

[jshm2]

Yeah well, sexual abuse while growing up, will do that to you.

[VaguelyAsianLisbeth]

no you are not a hypocrite you just know what you like and dont like even if you dont really have a super specific reason its on them to be respectful of your tastes

[HannahHehe]

I was so confused and kept thinking about it. I have many friends who respect me and they accept me for who I'm so I was worried I'm doing something wrong with my other friends even though I told them many times that i only like dicks nothing more.

[Bricealan]

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[Dargil]

I wouldn't say its common, but it is what you like.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

No, this is your preference and no one should judge you

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@hannahhehe Guys should be happy with hand jobs that's crazy

[HannahHehe]

Thanks for understanding that i only want to use my hands !

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

@hannahhehe LMBO

[FunkyMonkee]

No, it makes them perverted users that think EVERY sexually related situation HAS to lead to sex. I love sex and would love to have a never-ending sup[ply of it but, if a girl wants to just play with my dick and not fuck me, so be it! I used to have a couple friends that'd let me play with their tits and another that let me play with her cunt but none would let me fuck them. It never chased me away from any of them.

[Danny_dan92]

You’re seth from super bad

[AndrewVahalla1987]

If I were In one of your Beau's shoes id shut up and enjoy a woman who actually likes playing with a dick

[HannahHehe]

That's what a good friend would do and most of them allow me to play with their dicks without saying anything to me

[SmokyOne]

Actually one of my best friends is the same. He's into dicks, arms, cuddling but no sex. So it is a thing just not common. Don't feel like you gotta do what you aren't comfortable with. Everyone is weird they just hide it. You'll be fine.

[AndrésC64]

It sounds a bit out of the norm, but to each their own. And I certainly wouldn't be complaining too much if you were playing with my dick until I came! 💦

[Lottifan]

You’re not a hypocrite at all. Have you had a bad sexual experience in the past?

[HannahHehe]

No but I've always been against sex

[Lottifan]

Fair enough. I guess the thing that worries you is whether it would hurt when a penis would enter you.