Is it weird that my boyfriend would never want a threesum?

He’s super jealous doesn’t want to share me , I just find it weird most boyfriends would love a threesum
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Not that I want a threesum, guess I’ve just been dating shitty guys before my current partner
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  • Well, you have to be secure with your partner, or it could be a mess. What kind of threesome? MMF, MFF? He might like to have two women, but you would not want to watch him fuck or eat out another woman? That said, he probably would not want to see you suck and fuck another man.

    I had a threesome with a married couple that lived in Fullerton, inland from here in HB. I was nervous, they were both very nice, but I got carried away and started to eat out the wife, and I'm not sure how he took that. Unfortunately, I could not get a hard-on after that, so could not fuck his wife. He did, and I was pissed, he shot his wad all over her chest and stomach, for what reason, I don't know, and besides that, he had a very small, 3 or 4 inch penis, and had I gotten a hard on, he would have been really pissed to see the penis size differential. That is ANOTHER ego thing for men contemplating a threesome, since the other man MAY have a larger penis and that would hurt the smaller guys ego.

    TMI? I hope not.

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  • How is it weird that he's not gay or into being cucked? If anything, you're the weird one for wanting a gay experience (with another chick), wanting HIM to have a gay experience (a Devil's Threeway), or in either instances, wanting him to be cucked by a third party.

    And god damn, these fucking comments... Are so many guys on this site really into being a literal fucking cuckold? Ad think other guys are into that as much as they are? This shit is pathetic.

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  • ... I've never met a guy (in an actual monogamous relationship) who'd be open to having a threesome.

    I think most guys under the age of 20 are into the idea of 'sharing' their woman and getting some extra action but a mature guy with a good head on his shoulders won't be into the idea of treating his lady like a piece of meat, y'know? I wouldn't say your guy is super jealous or exhibiting unusual behaviour (unless your guys' relationship is open)

  • Threesome is def a common male fantasy. However, exceptions apply.

    He's probably the possessive type who would rather spice things up position wise rather than introducing a new person.

    I personally think threesome isn't for everyone.

    I'm personally curious though.

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  • He knows his limits. Respect them is my advice.

  • No, I don't think it's weird. I find it pretty normal.

  • i think its rarer for boyfriends to actually suggest to try to have a threesome.

    • Hmmm 🤔 I guess depends on the guy my ex used to always ask for a threesum , ended up being a cheater so that probably explains it

    • yeah, and 1 guy doesn't equal the majority...

    • Yes true , I just thought it was normal

  • I think most people are nervous of 3 somes when in a relationship.

    when single, then not a huge issue.

    So not that surprised tbh.

    • Nervous of what?

    • @backseatvibing nervous of either meeting a girl they like and leaving partner Or usually their partner meeting a girl or guy that they keep seeing being back and eventually leave them for, Imagine how he would feel if you turned around and said ‘wow I have never had an orgasm that good before’

  • Maybe he is afraid that he can't keep up with two girls. Can he go for round 2 or 3 when you two have sex?

  • Not really. Some people don’t want that with their partner and some people are open to the idea. Unfortunately your boyfriend isn’t interest in that, wouldn’t make him weird.

  • A threesome isn't even on the table. Be honest, we read the question. You obviously want a threesome. You can't word the question like that and then suddenly say no not me? Why would it be weird for him if he doesn't want it as much as you?

  • Not at all. A lot of people do not like to share. I have made the same offer before and they said no.

  • Some boys get jealous more doesn't matter who is kissing or having sex with you, so they shut the door on 3some. But I'm cool with either.

  • Most like the idea of it, but not something we’d generally want with a long term partner

  • My wife had a few mfm threesums in college.
    She invited a girlfriend to have a few FMF threesums with us.
    So I figured that it's time to return the favor.
    So I told her. Out of anyone in the world, if you wanted to have another mfm threesum with me and one other guy, who would it be?
    She named his name. I said if he ever visits the US then lets invite him and ask him if he'd be up for it. She accepted.
    He was going to visit, he got COVID-19. He's recovered. Now we're waiting to see what happens.
    We can't force our partners into behavior.
    But if they're willing then life could be so fun

  • No it's pretty normal I think a lot of guy's fantasise about threesomes but it's different actually having one especially if it's MFM i'd imagine

  • some guys are just not that into it

  • He doesn't want to share you, maybe he loves you a lot.

  • No man, I mean no man who truly loves you would be open to share you in any way. Especially not sexually even if it's with another woman.

  • He does want. If he says he dont he lies because he is scarred how do you react. EVERY MEN WANT A THREESOME. Ok maybe not but sciencist says most kf us want and this is natural, normal.

    If he says he does nkt want maybe its because he want to show you hiw much he is loyal

  • Yeah but guys want a threesome with a another girl thsn another guy but no it not weird it's is a fantasy most guys will never get a chance to have and most guys do get jealous either it's a guy or a girl.

  • I have but I wouldn’t with a girlfriend. That’s asking for trouble.

  • The thing with sharing significant ones is because there's an increasing risk there of them leaving you to be with someone else, and even if they stay in the relationship, they may start to sacrifice the time they would be with you to be with the other person, not everybody is willing to give up on that.

    That's why people are territorial with their partners when it comes to this. Your boyfriend is actually the most common type of guy.

    • People in open relationships manage a way to share their partner while still having a stable relationship with them, with them being the priority.

  • It would depend what type you are talking about…MFF, FMF, MFM or MMF. The first two, a little odd. Who wouldn’t want two girls…. at least try it once. Adding another guy take a confident individual/guy and a solid relationship with great communication. All possible but would respect you boyfriends boundaries.

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