Is it weird to ask him to get tested before we have any type of sex?

Anonymous

Like for example oral sex without condom can still give you STD’s

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I just feel like a big prude hence this question 🙃

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Another question: if you are dating a girl and she asks you this -to get tested before having sex-, what do you think about the status of the relationship? Do you immediately assume to be exclusive?

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jogor20 Xper 3
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No, if he has a lot of sex partners.
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MasterKS Yoda
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its smartness!
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Anonymous
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No, with over 53% of adults in America with an STD; it would be dumb not to get tested.
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- Opinion Owner
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  Assume nothing. You need to discuss this or you are inviting problems
Anonymous
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Very prudent and highly recommended. He should thank you since you will also be getting tested for his peace of mind.
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- Opinion Owner
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  Your other question: Quite the opposite. I would think asking me to get tested indicates that you are sensible and intelligent. It says nothing beyond that. You might be hinting at that but equally you might be taking sensible precaution to enable you to continue enjoying the company of multiple partners.
Anonymous
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Not really but most guys probably won’t want to just because of the hassle of getting it done
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- Asker
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  I don’t understand why guys think it is a hassle when all you have to do is pee in a cup
- Opinion Owner
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  That’s not how it works because you need to get a blood test and they don’t do a urine test for stds
- Opinion Owner
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  I had a full panel blood test done to make sure I didn’t have any STDs and it was two vials of blood and no urine test involved for that , luckily I didn’t have any STDs
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- Asker
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  In my country it is a urine test
- Opinion Owner
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  Not very extensive with a urine test you won’t be able to find out enough things through just urine
- Opinion Owner
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  It does indirectly state that you guys are exclusive because if he is having sex somewhere else then what if they have an std then he get it even though he got tested for you so hopefully he is loyal
Anonymous
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If you're too shy to tell him to wear a condom or to get tested you're not ready for sex!
NEVER gamble your (sexual) health on an orgasm. It's not worth it!
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