Is it weird when there is too much eye contact during sex?

Is it weird when there is too much eye contact during sex?
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  • This is a fascinating Q to me.

    My last girlfriend said I was TOO intense when we were intimate. She couldn't meet and hold my gaze. She got this very screwed up face when we kissed.

    In retrospect, I should have taken these as bad omens. We have since broke up.

    But I never found out what she meant about "TOO intense" gaze.

    Any thoughts would be appreciated.

    • Eye contact between humans can be considered "aggressive" behavior. For her, she clearly felt threatened. Why seems to have to do with something internal about her eye contact experiences. Looking at someone you love SHOULD be pleasant and a turn on.

    • Yup. I agree. In hindsight, I think she had PTSD or some other anxiety disorder.

    • I can understand wanting to ALWAYS look... Don't you know some people who kiss with their eyes open the whole time? That's different and at that distance too much...

  • I've never been there :) but I think it can be alittle weird but then it can be very passionate and intense in a good way :)

Most Helpful Girl

  • I like it when it's romantic, I don't like it when it's just some guy I'm fooling around with

    • Curious! Please explain!

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  • Why would it be?

  • I heard about a feminist who get triggered by that, so she always doing it in doggy style.

    • Haha

  • No, I want to look her in the eyes and let her know that I’m in control 😉😏

  • No. I like it or I've never experienced too much

    • Ditto!

  • No, I want to see those pupils dilate when she's aroused and I want to see them eyes roll back when she cums.

    Is it weird when there is too much eye contact during sex?
  • Eye contact no. But when they have the "I'm going to murder you in your sleep look" or they are staring into the darkest depths of my soul then yeah it's kinda strange.

    • Sleep" look*

  • Some like it, some need to focus more inwardly.
    Some are really keen on watching the other's ecstasy.

  • Not at all that is the best

  • At a certain point lass

    • "Are ya lost lad?", someone shouted at me as I rode my bike home. Sorry, Ava! Toasty can't help but be toasting all night long! "Who you gonna call? TOASTBUSTERS!!!"

    • @ToastyTimothy you can toast, but don't burn the toast

  • Not at all I personally like eye contact

  • No not at all but it is kinda hard to look up from down there

    • Yeah it's the worst when im in doggy postion. I can't turn my head like a owl 🦉🦉 I usually will look forward and glance back

  • Looking lustfully into the eyes

  • Very exciting as very often language of eyes tells a lot.

  • nope not at all! at least not for me lol i actually find it a HUGE TURN ON!!

  • Eye contact is fine

  • If I'm sticking my dick in someone, eye contact is not going to be weird

  • Can be. Yes. Then that means you not truly focused on how it makes you feel

  • Eye contact is very important because of the merging of body and soul to One.
    When a couple want to have a child the Eye contact is the sighn for the childs soul to be ready to enter the Body of the child.

  • I prefer it. I mean i like looking everywhere too but you have to look into the eyes at time to connect.

  • 🤔🤔🍾

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