Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Hey all.
I met someone and he was amazing. He was everything I ever dreamed of. However when the time came for him and I to get intimate, I found that he was like 3 inches rock hard.
Nothing wrong with that it's just that he hurt me trying to compensate for it.
I didn't want to have sex with him again therfore I had to break it off... I had to lie too about why I had to break it off.
I feel terrible. Was it a terrible thing I did? I was only dating him for a month.
Is it wrong to dump someone because of a small penis?
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10 35thats justified, it'd be the same situation if his dick was way too big. sex is important for a good relationship
Oh little Willie Willie won't, go home.
Understandable. At least you're honest- Unlike most girls here "size does not matter" yeah right. But when they see a huge cock they're like "OMG WHAT A MONSTER COCK! SHOVE IT ALL INSIDE ME!!!"
Same goes to big asses and boobs to women. When men say "naaah I don't like big boobs" but when they see those huge boobs (especially naturally huge) "WOOOOW! DUDE LOOK AT THOSE TITS!!!"
thats alright i guess
Absolutely not. There 's nothing wrong about dumping someone for having a small penis. If you continued with him you would only get more and more frustrated. What were you supposed to do? There are plenty of guys out there that have the same qualities and a bigger penis. I don't even understand how that would be wrong...
The lying part is questionable though.
You know what u want, and in your case you won't a good size with a connection aswell. Nothing wrong with that.
ok, if he was a nice guy and a good lover but his dick still small, would you stay with him?
You shouldve told him. Its not exactly a micro penis but its small. There are surgeries for men with an inadequate penis size.
"he was amazing. He was everything I ever dreamed of"
"found that he was like 3 inches rock hard therefore I had to break it off"
I knew relationships were all about sex.
understandable :D :D :D
Love is a very valuable feeling.
Never Leave Anyone Who Valorizes You.
My gosh I know
Wow! How did he hurt you trying to over compensate for his lack of penis size? I have a question, do you like when guys shave their whole body including legs over very hairy man?
Ohhh... You should have see all the available options before breaking up with him, he could have make a penis enlargement and width surgery, those are done for guys with micro penis. Sorry but if he was everything you ever dream of you wo´t break up with him for his penis size.
How the hell am I going to ask him to get a penis enlargement?
You gotta talk! If you don´t speack up about something that annoys you in a serious relationship what´s the point of been in it? Hiding things or saying "it´s over I deserve better" without really ever trying isn´t going to solve anything.
You could have just told him that you need oral from him every time before he gets to penetrate you.
I don't blame you. You need to be able to feel something down there & even if u were to stay with him and got u a dildo/vibrator chances are your toy would be bigger and you would like that more than the real thing. I'm sorry that had to happen and that you haven't been with a guy any bigger yet.
he could wear a penis sleeve.
if u r not satisfied then it is ok
Most people would have the same... It's time you find someone with a bigger dick.
It's not wrong, if you really care about that you're doing him a favour anyway by breaking up with him
I personally belief if you cared for him it shouldn't matter. And yes it's the same reversed. How would you feel if a guy dumped you just because of your breast size? I'm sure guys do, but I believe the same thing, if you truly like someone and care, it doesn't matter. At least for me it doesn't. But having said that we all have our preferences. You've made your decision and just move on now. Yes you were a bit shallow and selfish but you want what you want. As far as breaking up with him (or any guy like this) never tell him the real reason but you don't have to lie either. All you have to say is "it's not working out" and/or "we're not compatible, I'm sorry" You don't have to give specific reasons, especially ones like that.
Re: "him hurting you while compensating for it" - did you talk to him about this and tell him? Did you suggest or try other things. Perhaps if you made him feel comfortable about his size he wouldn't have done whatever he did that was hurting you?
No wonder there's like 20 penis size questions on here.
We are obsessed with penis.
What size do you need?
5 inches is nice :)
What girth :)