Is my boyfriend calling my vagina loose?

My boyfriend thinks I cheated. He says "I think you definitely fucked someone who isn't in town anymore, and has a big dick". I got upset because I believe he was calling my vagina loose (we had sex earlier that day). What do you think he means by this?
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  • Insecurities. He said "think"... if he truly beleived that he wouldn't appaching with question. He heard it or somethinh suggested that to him that he seen. Be confident and dont act like you have to explain cuz then you just play guilty role anyways. First off you should be upset that he would view you in that manner and dont talk to him for a while. A day at least. And then approach the issue with him and try to ensure him he's the only one, and make him feel that he is giod enough for you not to want anybody else, make him feel confident. Do some vag excercise just incase, you should never feel unsure about the quality of your budding flower. I mean its not ginna hurt it for sure. Under it all we present the tough and confident guy cuz we can't seem weak, but some guys are really insecure and sensitive Nd it will come out at some point. Now if you are being understanding and he's being a dick about it then tell him you haven't thought of anybody elses dick until he brings it up, can't really help it whem thr dicks on your mind more than mine can I ___________. Lol

Most Helpful Guy

  • usually the way this sort of thing is is if someone is insistant on someone being a cheat without proof, just basing their accusations purely on paranoia and no factual evidence... the chances of them (instead of the accused) being the guilty ones who have actually cheated is a lot higher and more likely... and in my experience

    the types more likely to assume cheating would be
    1) Insecure types...
    2) players and actual cheaters
    3) untrusting types...

    cheaters will attempt to place blame so as to justify to themselves and those around them why they cheated... so they blame those they are with because in their minds it makes then look more ok with cheating on their partner

Most Helpful Girl

  • It is not tight and why should it be? You are wet. He is a wet noodle with no trust. Ditch him.

    • Thanks, Gaggy. xx

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  • I take it you weren't with anyone else? Look up Kegel exercises and do hundreds of them. It's tone your pelvic floor muscles and "tighten" your vagina.

  • Only he knows and he should clarify

  • Dick size does not permanently loosen a vagina. Only traumatic childbirth does that.
    Dump this guy. Your relationship is uneven and has no future.

    • True. The vagina is designed to easily give birth to an 8 pound baby.

    • not permanently but it can feel looser the next few hours after sex.

  • He was just being a dick. There is nothing wrong with your vagina. It wouldn't loosen up like that after just sex. I have notices so times that my wife felt looser then others. But once i got her stimulated and the blood flow going down there. I could feel the tightness. I think its a pretty normal thing but she is the only person i have ever been with and i dont have girl parts. So i could be completely wrong

  • He shouldn't say such a disrespectful thing to you. If he's accusing you of cheating you don't need him in your life.

  • He’s an idiot.

  • You're boyfriend is an idiot and thinks you cheated. Makes me wonder if he's not the one who cheated and he's trying to deflect the guilt onto you.

  • Drop his ass

  • You need to find a less insecure boyfriend. Usually when they accuse you of cheating , they are the ones that have or are considering it.
    There are better ones out there!

  • He's definitely saying that just tell him he needs a bigger D

  • looking to get rid of you. Say bye bye before you get really hurt

  • I think you should fine a new boyfriend, this one seems defective.

  • Get rid of him. He's probably cheating on you and using reverse psychology to hide it

  • It means he shouldn't be your boyfriend anymore

  • He’s an asshole, you can do a lot better than him.

  • Maybe his dick shrunk.

  • ask him to explain

  • He's definitely accusing you of cheating. Maybe that day you were just extra wet. Bit yeah he's calling you wide.

  • No don't mis interpret.

  • He's simultaneously managing to call you a cheater, insult his own penis size and insult your vagina all at once.
    Did you cheat?

    • Thanks for your response, and good question! No, I didn't cheat. Which makes me wonder even more about what he meant by saying this to me...

    • I guess you felt looser than usual or his dick wasn't as hard as usual. Some people are super paranoid about getting betrayed. My girlfriend would have bad dreams about me cheating on her. She would wake up in the morning and be seriously mad at me. Sometimes when we first started having sex her pussy would fart and my mind would start wondering why she already had air trapped in there. Someone said that means she's cheating. 😃 People are crazy in relationships. She did turn out to be a cheater, but whatever. Nobody's perfect, life goes on. Sorry to hear that your relationship is struggling. Best of luck to you.

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