Is my guy cumming in me wrong to become official? it’s one of his agreements?

This guy I’ve been talking to since April 27th told me that he doesn’t want to become official until he can cum in me.. but he thinks it will help to make me cum vaginally but I think it’s messed up...
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  • NO, that is a ridiculous agreement and you should not even consider it. He is using you. There is a possibility you could get pregnant if he cums in you.

    He is either trying to trap you or trick you into letting him cum inside you so he can get a quick thrill. He is a selfish, inconsiderate leech. My advice—RUN AWAY, AND FAR AS POSSIBLE..

  • Yeah fuck him. That translates to I really just want to fuck you and unless you do that for me I don’t care about you. If he liked u he would respect you. Don’t waste your time dump him

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  • His thinking is totally wrong, if you are to be in a relationship that should be established before sex. Don't get me wrong I'm not saying you have to be in a relationship to have sex but if it is to be a relationship having sex and cumming inside you should not be what makes it so that he lets everyone know that he's yours and you're his.

  • thats one douche move, so he can't care about you, support you, love you, until he jizzes in you, what a lusty douchebag smh

    people nowadays smh

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  • That is crazy. I’ve never heard of a guy wanting to have sex first before becoming official. Definitely get rid of him!

    • You must misread what I said.. we have had sex already but thinks this will improve our sex lives to when becoming official

    • 🤷‍♀️okay

  • Sounds like a douche

  • He is completely messed up. My advice would be to find a better guy.

  • Yeah, that sounds all kinda wrong and manipulative.
    He's playing on a typical girl's desire to put titles on a relationship.
    I'd quit talking to him.

  • Douche bag us way too polite to describe him !

    Tell him he's now officially gone from your life !!

  • Deff a fetish and deff messed up

  • RUN RUN this guy is messed up and how did u know he does not have a disease?

    • He once was a player..

  • seems like he is blackmailing you because i never saw that written in any relationship books before

  • Holy fuck, what a creep. He dosnt know how a vagina work. I would place money on you being able to do better

  • Stupid agreement.

  • U r correct. His thinking is messed up. Do NOT do that if ur not on bc or ur ovulating or u just don’t feel comfortable with it. U guys should be official way before he gets to do that.

    • For that matter, you can tell him no sex at all (even if he wears a condom or he pulls out) until you guys are official first. That’s what I do.

  • so it's basically a relationship of pretty much sex, I know where that path leads, it's not a real relationship

  • Oh em eff Capital G. Get away from that guy.

  • Make sure you have an effective form of birth control. The cum away.

  • Be smart... If you could see a list of baby mamas that bought into that bullshit with
    promises of marriage. Now ten years and
    four baby mama's later. No ring, no wedding.

  • So I'm assuming you're playing the old "no sex until you promise to break your back for me" game.

    That's his counter.
    Your move.

  • He’s full of shit

  • Well he wants to cum inside you. And looking for excuses

  • Nonsense. He's pulling your leg, but I hope your using protection if you fall for it.

    • Trust me. I’m not. We talking things through tonight

    • Ok, well good luck.

  • That does sound messed up

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