Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health So I’m 19 and still a virgin. Not because I couldn’t get sex but because I wanted to save it for someone I felt was special. I have a boyfriend right now that I’m thinking of giving my v card to, but I’m really nervous. Setting aside all my insecurities and zero-experience, I’m really nervous about the whole penetration part.
First of all, I’m a petite girl. And when I masturbate, I tend to bleed sometimes. Even though it’s minimal, I hate it because it makes me feel so terrible about what sex will be like. I’d say I’m able to get in about 4 inch girth and even that feels tight to me. My boyfriend is a little above average and I’m dreading this! I know the vagina can stretch quite a bit, but I don’t think I’d be bleeding if that were my case. On top of that, I once tried masturbating every day for a week to see if my vagina would become more accustomed and it just doesn’t seem to work.
What do I do? Will my body adjust once it knows I’m sexually active? Is this something I’ll need medical help with? I want to experience sex but I’m scared I’m just one of those rare girls who are too tight and would even find sex painful. I’m stuck. If anyone could help give me a little insight, I’d really appreciate it. Girls who were tight and guys who have tight partners: what did you do? What were your experiences like? Please help, I feel terrible about this 😣
Is there such a thing of being TOO tight? 😩?
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What Girls & Guys Said
12 13If you truly love and trust your boyfriend you should give him your v card. If your having doubts it probably wouldn’t be a good idea. But if he loves you he will be gentle and he won’t care that you’re a virgin.
That’s very true. He’s been so sweet and patient with our relationship. I just can’t get this out of my head