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Sexual Health Guys, Is this a sign that I suck in bed? I'm a girl, but I need a guys advice on this?
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Okay, so I am 20 years old. I lost my virginity at 16 to my boyfriend at the time. He stayed with me for about 4 years. He said I was the best sex he ever had (and he had been with quite a few girls before me.) He still texts me after we broke up and we still fuck frequently. After the break up however, I've been with 3 other guys. The first guy I slept with after the break up had a girlfriend and we all had a threesome. While the guy was fucking me, he told me that I was really tight and that i was the tightest he's ever had and he said that in front of his girlfriend, so that caused a lot of problems and it basically ended with the girlfriend crying and I had to leave. He never fucked me again. I understand why on that one. But the next guy I had sex with was a lot older than me. We fucked about 3 or 4 times and he came within a couple minutes each time we had sex.. We fought way too much and he lives a couple hours away from me. He tried to date me, but I told him that I didn't want to and that I'd rather just be fuckbuddies. He took offense to that and told me that I was a psycho and that he was done trying with me. I haven't heard from him since. And the last guy I had sex with was my age and he only fucked me 3 times. He also came within a couple minutes each time we had sex as well. He always seemed embarrassed about that, he always apologized for it, but I never made a big deal about it and I never complained. I was actually very nice to him and I told him that i liked sex with him. He said the sex was really good and that I had great pussy and he said that I tasted nice. But one day, I woke up and tried to text him and found out that he had blocked me.. for no reason. I can only get guys to fuck me 3 or 4 times and then they are done with me. Is this a sign that I suck in bed? Every guy that I've been with after the break up has said that I'm very tight and they can't last very long with me, but I can't keep them around. Usually if a guy likes sex with a girl, he stays around, right?
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And no, I am not easy. I do not have a reputation for being easy or anything. I just simply can't keep a guy around and I'm wondering if its because my sex or pussy sucks. Maybe the guys I've been with lied to me about how good it was?
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What Guys Said
(18)Bo that doesn't mean that u suck maybe u dont suck enough
Oh no, apparently i give really good head too. I don't know what I'm doing wrong.
Maybe you are trying to hard plus with Ur ex coming back all the time makes me wonder if you are really over him
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It has nothing to do with the sex. They're put off by your attitude and that's all it is.
I don't know what I did though. I'm not mean at all. In fact, they all told me that I was super nice and easy to talk to.
Hmm, I'm not sure. If they're coming quickly like that it's not because you suck. Having read through it again I think I might be wrong. The first guy was for obvious reasons. The second guy, he caught feelings for you and got offended when you didn't reciprocate. The third guy I'm guessing left because he felt embarrassed about coming so early despite you telling him that it was okay.
Nah. Sounds like you're really good in bed. No idea why guy 4 blocked you, but I'd assume it's for a completely different reason - the others definitely are.
I was really nice to him, but if I think really hard about our interactions, I got upset when he didn't reply for a long time. I never pushed for a relationship, though. I don't think I was too clingy though.. I don't know what happened.
Hard to know. No idea if this is relevant, but when I was roughly your age I got a girlfriend, and because she was very uncomfortable with me being in touch with women I'd slept with, I quickly blocked them all. And because I was an inconsiderate jerk, I did so without telling any of them. I doubt any of them missed me, but I definitely could have handled it better. I guess my point is that sometimes men are idiots that do stuff without explaining why, and many times we don't really do it to be hurtful. But all of these guys told you how good you are in bed, and your ex is still sleeping with you, so I'd say that's probably not your problem.
Okay. Thank you. I tend to overthink things and tell myself it's always my fault when something happens. I appreciate the help!
Do you think it's possible that all the guys were lying when they said the sex with me was good so that they didn't hurt my feelings?
It's possible, but I don't think it's very likely. If it was one, perhaps, but when so many men make a point out of telling you how good you are, you're definitely good. Besides... Guy 1 had a girlfriend, so for him that's it. Guy 2 and 3 you fought a lot with, I'd say the chemistry issues were happening outside the bedroom there. Guy 4: if he cared so much about not hurting your feelings, why would he block you? And if he hated sex with you, why would he do it more than once? Men are problematic for many reasons, and you're definitely not the issue here.
I think he blocked me because of his ex. They are now back together because I saw them around. Does this mean that he thought his ex was better in bed than me? Since he blocked me for her..