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I was hanging with my friend and he asked to motor boated my boobs and I let him cause it’s funny and he has done it before... then he asked to suck them and I said no but he just pulled my shirt down and started sucking them. after he was done sucking them he gets up and pulls his dick out and puts his hand on my head and moves it closer to his dick... and I told him I couldn’t suck him and he just laughs is this sexual assault? and should I stop being friends with him?
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15 40Yes and ABSOLUTELY yes you should not be around him anymore
Yes, it was.
Yes it is sexual assault. He continued after you told him no and that's not okay. I would advise that you stop being friends with him. If you keep being friends in him he going tell himself that ur okay with it even though u say no and push it even farther. Things could get rapey very fast I would stay away
Glad to see there's still some hope for men.. that guys that actually understand like you exist.
@anonymau55 haha well tbf I think most guys in the real. world get this. At least I hope they do 😅
In my personal experience yeah, most guys do. But the comments here are kinda sickening.
@anonymau55 yea I get that. I'm knew here so I don't know if this is the normal but I guess u should try not to let it get to u. Or just take notes on who you should avoid on here. Haha glad I gave you some. hope tho
No idea about your relationship.
Yes it is sexual assault.
No. It isn't. It's improper and he shouldn't be doing it and it means she should no longer be around him, if it is something she is that concerned about. It is not sexual assault, either legally or ethically.
@Thatsamazing The term sexual assault refers to sexual contact or behavior that occurs without explicit consent of the victim. Some forms of sexual assault include:
Attempted rape
Fondling or unwanted sexual touching
Forcing a victim to perform sexual acts, such as oral sex or penetrating the perpetrator’s body
Penetration of the victim’s body, also known as rape.
https://www.rainn.org/articles/sexual-assault
@Thatsamazing legal definition = The term “sexual assault” means any nonconsensual sexual act proscribed by Federal, tribal, or State law, including when the victim lacks capacity to consent.
https://www.justice.gov/ovw/sexual-assault
She consented to him touching her tho, she just said no to sucking beasts. But she didn't back away like she meant it. She didn't even stop him or back away after he pulled her shirt down. She just let him. That is not unlawful. Many will say no in confrontation. But they don't know if they'd like it. I've done that in the past too often and later regret, as once you say no you've just rejected someone.
@ChocoBrownieMonster Right. And yes, I know all that-- again, it's weird and improper, not sexual assault. If it bothers her that much, she can leave him alone and never talk to him again. I wouldn't blame her.
@Thatsamazing yeah this is not something to get fussed over. Girls are being told to be extremely dangerous.
yup for sure
It is sexual assault. It's your decision on being friends with him
"I let him" I stopped reading right there. You know where that can lead to.
It's only sexual assault because you consider him ONLY a friend
This is why girls and guys can't be "just friends"
I GUARAN FUCKING TEE IT
Yes and call police. He’s a rapist.
You're an idiot.
@Thatsamazing If I shoved your head toward my dock you’d punch me and call the cops, right? Why is it different for chicks?
Uh because she had literally just been doing something sexual with him. She's allowed to say no and change her mind, and he's allowed to be confused at that, considering his face was literally just in her fucking tits moments earlier and she was perfectly fine with it. It is not sexual assault, legally or ethically. Spreading the lie that it is makes proper sexual consent situations harder for people who aren't very bright and don't understand the proper nuance with which situations should be handled. This guy needs to be told "bro, don't do that. There are better ways to handle that in the future, and you should apologize to her for your behavior." Not "you're a rapist." That's fucking idiotic. "If I shoved your head toward my cock" like did you literally not read the rest of her post? I'm amazed that this is your understanding of the situation, like she's just some stranger and he saw her walking down the street and accosted her.
The second you say "no" and he doesn't stop, that's SA.
No. It isn't. It's improper and he shouldn't be doing it and it means she should no longer be around him, if it is something she is that concerned about. It is not sexual assault, either legally or ethically.
You are so confused it hurts to read...
yeah that guy need his ass fucking kicked its close to just rapping someone and that's fucked if I was one of your guy friends and heard about this I would fuck him up in front of every one the he can motorboat my nuts.
Well said
So you think its OK for you to sexually assault people but others have to follow rules. You are every bit as bad as the guy in the original question.
I don't think you understood what chris0810nv said. He just said that the guy in the question needs to get educated.
@mmv99 You are a fucking dumb cunt. He said he was going to beat the fuck out of him and then fuck his face.
Yeah you can start then decide to stop and if someone doesn't its assault too. But be sure you were clear and havnt blurted the lines then or before
sounds like he just wants a thing with you if he can't respect what you say or want tell him to get lost easy as that but im guessing to he just thinks if you didn't care to let him go that far he thougth you mite want more just be upfront good luck
You contributed and have him the okay. He took it too far, so I would say no.
No; she has the right to stop the situation whenever she wants. Men like you are the problem.
She absolutely does, but she said it was okay. She led him on. It sounds like it stopped so it's not assault
You don't know shit about me. Go hang out with your cats.
It's still assault to grab the back of someone's head and try to force your cock in their mouth, whether you do or not. That's rapist behavior.
lol not my cat either 😂
I'm not supporting his behavior
It's still sexual assault. She didn't even want him to suck her nipples and he did without consent.
You are missing the part where she lifted her shirt and let him motorboat her tits... is that okay?
She's allowed to consent to one thing and not another 🙄
Well I did not lift my shirt my boobs were already kind of out since I was wearing a tank top
I'm out... report the guy then
@anonymau55 Yes, to a point-- no, it is not "sexual assault," either legally or ethically. Me, literally inside you: "Hey yeah you like that?" You, with me inside you: "Yeah I like that" Me: "Yeah?" You, immediately and suddenly and without cause: "NO" Me, confused, still inside you, taking more than 2.4453 seconds to leave your body: "Oh uh okay wait just--" You: "YOU'RE STILL INSIDE ME YOU ARE RAPING ME" ... That's fucking idiotic, not how sex and romance work, and disingenuous. Yes, she has the right to change her mind, yes, she has the right to say what she said, same as he would-- it is not sexual assault. It is improper and if it's that big of a deal to her, she has every right to no longer be around him.
Stop being friends right away. That is sexual assault.
That is classic sexual assault
No. It isn't. It's improper and he shouldn't be doing it and it means she should no longer be around him, if it is something she is that concerned about. It is not sexual assault, either legally or ethically.
He did something sexual you were not comfortable with. So yes it was sexual assault. It is up to you whether to try and set some boundaries with him or just forget him. Honestly, I would talk to him about it and based on his response I would make my decision.
It's not sexual assault it's just fun things guys do.