Is virginity important for you while getting into a serious relationship?

[Anonymous]

Imagine that you wanna start a serious relationship and then get married. Is virginity important for you?

[Dargil]

I will try to determine if she has a long visitor roster. I don't want her vagina to be down to the wear indicators.

Besides. Many surveys have shown that multiple partners rob a female of her capacity to bond with a man and with children. For some culturally hypocritical reason, this is not so true with men, who can easily transition to TV Dads around age 40. It may be unfair, but it's true. A high number with a girl is a red flag.

[Berethor]

It important to me, I don't trust hos and they dirty, also the statistics support marring a virgin.

https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/no_hymen,_no_diamond

[LazerBean]

It definitely did while I was a virgin. There no point in time where I would ever consider a relationship with someone who had a higher body count than me.

[ushagomez]

No. It is all about the person, not about if they have ended their virginity.

[SteveSmith1985]

Nope.

[Usernamesuck]

I would definitely prefer him not to be a virgin. If he’s over 30 and still a virgin he’s gonna be a real weirdo right? 😬

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Lol, true

[summiter]

Not really... our pasts are our pasts if you want to get married it is about love not whether one of you has had sex before

[Gent207-2]

Everyone has history

If you can't accept the history than you don't love them, especially if they grew up from that history.

[MementoMori777]

I'd prefer a virgin but if I settle for just that I might never get anyone lol

[emilykwilson]

Virginity is really something you should get rid of as fast as possible. If a guy is a virgin after 16 that guy's a weirdo.

[goaded]

Anyone who says it is but isn't themselves is a hypocrite. No, it's not that important, especially these days.

[RavVid]

Depends on the age of the girl. By late twenties I would be surprised and wonder if she didn't have a libido. Which might not bode that well if she won't till marriage.

I would put a low body count as more important.

[exitseven]

no. but somebody with a body count about the same as mine would be good.

[megabamse]

I don't care what so ever about that. I actually prefer of they are experienced

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, virginity is important to me, since I am the oldest male virgin on this site.

[Redstang88]

No..

[Asker]

Come on, it actually matters.

[Redstang88]

Nope

[magiusX26]

yes and no. yes i want her close to virgin, no i do not want a virgin. i want her to have a point of refference about performance in this area too.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah.

[Asker]

Are u a virgin too?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yeah.

[Asker]

I don’t actually believe that a man at his 36 is a virgin.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Because I don't want kids and I don't trust any birth control methods aside from surgical steralization, so I'm just avoiding putting my dick in a vagina until I find "the one" and figure out which one of us is gonna be the steralized one.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I coould just get a vasectomy, but its scary, and i'd kick myself over it if I meet a perfect match and she already got steralized before meeting me.

[Asker]

Yeah that’s the reason why i also don’t do it.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I dunno why you think a 36 year old can't be a virgin. Why should I have sex with a woman I don't like, if I can just watch porn until I find a wife instead? I gain nothing risking pregancy and stds for no reason.

[Asker]

It sounds impossible to find a perfect match that meets your standards. Go get a vasectomy before it’s too late.

[TheSpaceGnome]

For me the problem is finding a woman who is artistically talented, loves video games, anime, sci-fi, fantasy, science, animals, and tech. And doesn't want kids, and doesn't smoke, or drink alcohol, or do other drugs, and likes the "cute" type of guy. Its not exactly common..

[Asker]

In today’s world, it’s kinda strange to hear all that stuff. I wouldn’t be suprised to hear that no virgin is living on the Earth.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What do yo mean before its too late? is there an age where you can't get a vasectomy? o. o I was gonna wait until i found a match, see if she;s sterile or willing to become sterile, and if not, then I get steralized.

[Asker]

Oh no, you are so picky. You don’t even have a chance to find a woman like that. Don’t be too strict.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats a really silly thing to say, lots of people are virgins. Most of them have piss poor social lives, but we exist none the less.

[Asker]

No but life is too short, time is passing so quickly. Do something before it’s too late. Just a friendly reminder.

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, thats what I need in a wife, so i'm sticking to it. I've found it lots of times, just not in the US yet (where she wasn't taken already)

[TheSpaceGnome]

I look the same as I did at 14, life is not going to be short for me.

[Asker]

Don’t be offended. What i said is a compliment. Being a virgin doesn’t make you prior to the other but it makes you different to think and live like that while the others don’t do that. You are different and i respect.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I wasn't offended, I just need that kind of girl in my life. I wanna have a couple ran home business with her, kinda like nerd forge.

[TheSpaceGnome]

I'm not completely picky though, she can be anywhere from mid 20s to mid 40s. Her income level is unimportant, and she can be in any US state if she's ok relocating. So I have the entire united states as a pool to work from for finding a match.

[JSmuve]

Not as much as the number of guys she's slept with and under what circumstances

[Asker]

What do you mean by circumstances?

[JSmuve]

Hookups, drunken one high stands, committed relationships, etc

[JSmuve]

One night stands*

[Asker]

How could you find out all these details? You cannot.

[JSmuve]

You can if she's open about it. You can also make inferences based on other questions.

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope

[Nikki1989]

No, that was something I couldn't get rid of fast enough.

[loveslongnails]

Not at all.

[Jamie05rhs]

Yes. Very important. I don't want to get with someone who has baggage and emotional ties from other men.

[AmeerX]

Yes, it is important to me to have a virgin wife because I am a virgin too