Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Kind of an embarrassing question... about boners?
Anonymous
So I am a girl and I just do not really understand boners. Like yes, I know that when a guy is aroused his peen gets hard but like how easily does it happen? Do they ONLY happen when he's turned on? Is it possible to be making out with a girl/more and NOT have a boner? Does just seeing a girl naked give you a boner? Can you get a boner just from talking to a girl about provocative things? I feel like I have more questions that I can't think of right now but yeah. I'm just super curious!
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What Girls & Guys Said
5 30A lot of things, anything that can increase our blood flow of a sexual, sensual, emotional nature.
No, it's not ONLY turning him on. A random blood rush to the penis can cause this.
U can ask many questions all can be answered. And yeah, a guy gets a boner at the shift of a breeze
Yes to all of those and it can be easy or difficult depending on the guy like I get one easy but it takes a long time to nut Ik tmi
yes, we can in all cases.
a lot of that depends on the guy, some guys get hard fast, while others take awhile.
It's basically just like female arousal but visible lol, in times that you usually start getting wet guys would be getting hard instead.
Depends quite heavily on age.
When you're in your mid teens lets say, you get them frequenly for no reason. You also get them VERY easily from things like seeing a naked girl, talking about provocative things, making out.
As guys get older, erections for no reason during the day diminish, though they still tend to get them during the latter stages of sleep (sometimes waking up with them, which is known as morning wood). Older guys don't get aroused quite as fast mentally as young guys do, but making out, seeing naked women, or talking about something provocative with a girl will tend to arouse them. However, mental arousal without a physical component is less likely to trigger orgasm. Older guys more often need physical stimulation to get an erection, but not always, and some of them, not that often.
I think it depends on the guy and the girl, but I guess I can't say for sure.