Love or lust? Which one would you choose rn? Why?

[Pinay_ako]

[Genie23]

Love we all get lusted by bunch of strangers and some people we know. It's not a good feeling to just to be wanted for sex. I do not want to sleep with someone I find attractive, no. I can just look at someone and go "He looks good" but that doesn't make me want to have sex with him so even if he approach me for it, I'll turn him down because I can only sleep with someone I find intelligent and I'm emotionally attached to. If there is no feelings, I can't enjoy sex. So, yeah, I'm demisexual or whatever people like me are called, lol.

Also, love is beautiful. Being in love and being loved by is a truly amazing feeling. It's special. You feel over the moon when the relationship goes on the next step. Even if you have fights, you still don't want to let go of that person and still want to kiss that person everyday. So, I say sleeping with the love of your life is way better than just getting involved with someone for sex.

[CrypticMoon]

I love my husband so much and I've become so incredibly attracted to him. I guess I'm enjoying the good life 😂

[Pinay_ako]

Good for you

[RavVid]

Male lust comes first and perhaps love follows. Male lust is primary and causal.

It is primary as an erection is necessary for sex and sex is the basis of both lust and love. Not every girl will cause a lustful erection in every guy and it is not as if having caused an erection a girl will continue to cause erections in a specific guy. Beer goggles do work but might only work that night.

A girl only has something to work with if a guy wants to fuck'er and continues to want to fuck her. That is a good reason why girls as a rule don't approach men and leave it to guys to approach them because it is self selecting. Those that do want to fuck them approach. So the girl then has something to work with.

[YourExLover69]

Mix of both. I need a genuine girlfriend in my life as soon as possible

[Leapfrog00]

A hard decision to make. Um, I'd probably chose lust over love. I don't understand that concept of love. Every girl I dated, the love seemed different. In the end though, I either got cheated on or played like a deck of cards.

At least with lust, there's no attachments for the most part. There's no high expectations. Although sometimes I miss love. I wish I had a better understanding of love. So much of it doesn't make sense.

[PositiveFlight]

Love

[ZackBan]

As the song says "I'm all out of love"

[Justmeagain1]

Love

[NathanDavis]

fries...

[Pinay_ako]

🤣 fair enough

[NathanDavis]

I was hungry... lol

[BoopBoopBeep]

Haha you Seem fun. Good on ya'

[BungusHighFivePizza]

I don't think of these things that way. I just like to have fun with good friends and go on adventures. If I meet woman along the way, sometimes I fall in love with her. That's how I got married. But I am neither looking for love nor lust. I just wanna have fun. I'm way simpler than all these people who show up with a spreadsheet of what they're looking for either in love or lust.

[MementoMori777]

Love

[anon1903]

Neither at the moment

[exitseven]

I marrie dfor love but there was also lust. There still is.

[magiusX26]

for me love is just not gonna work. lust still gets you hurt by the way.

[TaureanBull81]

A mix of both which you can have in a relationship. Gotta love ❤️ hot, dirty sex with a partner 😉😈

[TaureanBull81]

Thanks for the upvote 😉

[Rockstarrrrr]

Both... I'm gonna need both lol

[Grond21]

I choose love. But I also want to know how you define lust.

[Legendarylegacy13]

I would have to say a mix of both because last was not a choice... lol... but I like lust... lust is wonderful...#lustistheshyt... lol

[Iron_Man]

Love

[DiegoO]

Lust. I can't afford a relationship.

[Sparkie460]

I married for love.

[BryanMoore]

Right now? I just need fun in my life!

[LiamJHayden]

Love. I had enough lust in my teens to last a dozen lifetimes.