Me and my boyfriend has sexual tension between us what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[OlderAndWiser]

What is the cause of the tension? Is the tension because one of you wants to have sex and the other doesn't? One of you wants to do something that the other doesn't want to do? What is the conflict that prevents this tension getting resolved?

[Asker]

Sexual tension do exists but I think I am not ready

[OlderAndWiser]

How far have you progressed in your physical affections? Anything beyond kissing and holding hands?

[Asker]

Only holding hands and kissing on cheeks only

[OlderAndWiser]

Do you want to start becoming sexual or do you want to wait for marriage?

[Asker]

Wait for marriage there is not much time left we r going to get married in one year or so

[OlderAndWiser]

You don't want to engage in any sexual behaviors with him before marriage, or just not PIV sex?

[Asker]

Piv means

[Asker]

Yes I will prefer everything after marriage it will be good

[OlderAndWiser]

PIV means penis in vagina If there is to be no sexual activity before marriage, the only thing you can do is to "take matters into your own hands" and encourage him to do the same.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[Berethor]

You should wait until marriage, that's what good girls do. :)

[Asker]

Yup u r right

[Berethor]

Yea, and I see that I am the only one here who told you that it better to wait until marriage. :)

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[Arivor]

Just bang.

[TheorionMage]

Mutually masturbate, using the 'electric slide' grinding 'dry humping~
NO penile penetration to vagina.

If you want to try 'anal'; MUCH lube and go gentlely~ ;)

[centerline]

you need to have sex or masturbate with each other... there is nothing else that you can do to make it go away.
I dont know how old you are, but some young people get to experimenting at a very early age so just be careful and dont get yourself into trouble.

[summiter]

I'll be a little sarcastic but fool around maybe handjobs/fingering. Just try getting naked with each other and give each other orgasms with your hands or mouths if you are not ready for sex yet. What are your thoughts on this?

[rachel776]

umm... sex usually relieves sexual tension real fast

[Tamera952]

You 'have' (present tense) ... or you 'had' (past tense) ... ?
People could probably help if you better explain what the tension is about, with more details.

[tae_ie]

release it on each other.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Have sex with each other? Don't hesitate to talk things out with him.

[CookyGirl]

Im mean if you two are both ready to do it... why not.

[User626]

I would download the spicer app and start doing things you match on.

[GoogleWasMyIdea]

Take a small break. No rush.

[JoJo765]

So what you guys waiting for?

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Fuck.

[Show_them_the_curve]

I think that you guys should have sex

[Nik1hil]

you both need to release that tension by making each other cum.

[winterfox10]

have you tried having sex?

[meeso13]

Uh, have sex?

[lokeshdh00]

What you mean by sexuak tension here? , Does he have problem in erection or you are not facing any sexual desire?

[FruitAndBlueEyes]

Hop in the bed and get to it!

[DiegoO]

I don't see a marriage coming, and if it comes, I don't see a happy marriage. Get over it. Both desire each other. Marriage is just a relagious or/and legal union, for convenience and status. Is not about virginity, never was.