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Sexual Health Men, do u prefer to initiate, or do u want ur s. o to initiate sex?
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I would rather the guy initiate (slight fear of rejection) and, I just prefer it, its a major turn on, especially when its just out of no where
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4 49Ether or but i drive the bus. no exceptions
I’m inexperienced & single but her to initiate
What are you speaking about
I love when she initiates it.
We want the girls to initiate it because somewhere in boys head there is a feeling that is she ok with it now or not
My boyfriend recently said that to me actually, he doesn't initiate often cause he doesn't want me to think all he wants is sex
Yeah true if a girl takes the first step then guy is much more open on what all he is planning to do
It's probably the only thing I've always hated about being born a guy, that guys are expected to make the first move and be the initiator in starting a relationship
We are raised to believe we have too and women are raised to expect it... but in this new age of female victim culture and men being falsely accused of all sorts of evils for showing basic interest under the scapegoat of "unwanted advances"... men know that it isn't safe to do the approaching anymore. If she doesn't like you, she can and likely will destroy your entire world.
So women need to do the approaching now. You guys have ruined it for yourselves.
Wow. This is completely wrong but okay. And i was referring to people in a long term committed relationship
It isn't wrong, you just don't like it. We live in a completely gynocentric world. In regards to long term relationships... we would prefer you initiate at least half the time, so we don't have to seem like the hungry dog all the time.
Just to make clear, I will always want it, if it is in appropriate place and I had enough time to recover, from last time.
So in case my SO would initiated something she would get it 95% of time, if follow this...
I like when she initiates and I can do it too.
I don't mind when I do, but something so sexy when she does.