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Men who are against women having a sex life are bitter of other men's success. True or false?

In recent weeks we've seen a rise in comments on GAG along the lines of "women shouldn't have sex..." often it's the usual religious zealot who thinks women who aren't virgins on their wedding night should be burnt at the stake or a Trump worshipper delighted at the abortion ban and wants to gloat.

But I've another theory. Men who are opposed to women sleeping around are bitter at the fact we're nor sleeping with them. It's a clear case of if I can't get pushy no one can.

Do you agree?
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  • Both true and false. There are for sure loads of those beta simp types who can't seem to get sex, and all the Trump loving guys who can't either, yeah. But I think there are other men who would still dislike women who sleep around even if they as men didn't want to sleep with them. And then you have men who are getting sex, but still don't like women who have been with several men either.

    I think all this "bitter" man stuff is too simple of an argument women try to use against guys for this issue. It feels to me like if they can just cancel out any guy as bitter or a virgin who doesn't like women who've had a lot of bodies on them, then it just makes them feel better as women to believe it, and it's not necessarily a true idea. No doubt, I've met a ton of guys on the Internet who are not having sex - maybe even still virgins - and they're angry because women who are having sex don't want them back, but in reality I don't think that spells the situation for most men. Like I said, you have guys who are getting sex regularly, and many of them still don't like women who've slept around either.

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  • I'm fine with people deciding to do whatever they're going to do. I'm NOT fine with people being in denial about the likely COST of certain choices, only to start complaining a decade later and demanding that the world should save them from the consequences of their own choices. That's why I talk about this issue a lot: to educate and to tell the truth about the likely consequences.

    Should someone KNOW the consequences, and choose to do it anyway, fine. Accept the consequences with grace when they come, and take accountability for your choices. But when people say "no one told me it would be this way, and it's not fair, so you need to step up and save me from these unfair consequences", that's now bringing the rest of the world into the issue, and that means we get to bring our perspectives with us.

    Women being promiscuous when they're young in kind of like a credit card: it's fun while you are charging things on the card and not having to pay for things up-front, but eventually you max out the card and can't buy anything new, AND you ALSO have to start paying all that money back, WITH INTEREST, so it's even more expensive than you realized. The price you pay for being promiscuous doesn't have to be paid up front - you can delay payment until you're in your 30s - but not only will life collect every penny you racked up in debt, but it will also charge you interest payments on top.

    • I absolutely agree.

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  • Lol agree
    they can't get pussy so they are resentful
    they want a women who bows to their every need, they can't get that because they are emotionally weak and unsuccesful so they are resentful
    they are unhappy with their own life and want to take it out on others

  • Good a theory as any.

    I really don't know what is wrong with them. It's like every girl on the planet who isn't married is a slut to them and maybe some who are.

    There are tons of creeps like that here on GAG, sorry to say.

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  • i only give head on hook ups so i feel guys don't mind you've been with a lot of guys long as you give them a good blowjob... they often complain you don't do more but i'm not doing more than that... obviously i enjoy what i do.

  • I don't know (I'm buzzed).
    I married a promiscuous woman and got her to fall in love with me.
    She only gave me her pussy for many years after that until she cheated.

  • When you wrote "pushy" you reminded me of Sean Connery's accent. LOL "Hello, Pushy" to Pussy Galore.

    I think all the things you mentioned could be rationalizations for these guy's logic. But I agree with you that one of the reasons is sour grapes. Plus, they see women as inferiors whose only use is producing babies for husbands.

  • Well I would probably wager that in a lot of cases they where raised in a house hold where the idea that women should remain a virgin tell marriage is beaten into their head. But I think it's a bit more complex then them being pissed because they are not being laid. I think it's part of this mind set where people think that everyone should live as they say and not as they do. Because if you demand that women be a virgin tell marriage, you need to hold yourself to the same demand. Simply because having a do as I say and not as I do attitude is a sure sign of being a hypocrite.

  • Haha... If women can't have sex then what those guys are dreaming about fucking each other... LOL... 😂 😂

  • Yeah it’s pretty much true.

    you see it on nights out, pubs n clubs.

    a guy will chat up a girl, she turns him down and she’s a slut.

    Then later that night he sees her with a guy, he turns to his mates and says “see told you she was a fucking slut”

    I’ve noticed it more being older where guys think at 40 they still have same pulling power as a 25 yr old.. and can chat up girls, who are not keen about dad chatting them up, say no, she’s then slammed as a slut.

    It’s also saying something if you cannot get “pussy” in some parts of you UK, you have some serious problems you as a guy need to sort out”

    It’s not even about the sex and sleeping around, it’s the interacting and being friends with girls, they really get fucked off, jealous and invariably gobby.

    The last issue we had was a guy slagging off one of the girls in our group, she was polite etc and said she did not want to go for a drink, he got all gobby and started so slagging her off. Thing is she’s gay and has a gf…

  • I haven't seen what you're referring to on GAG, but anyway, no. A society of whores leaves a society of women unfit to be mothers, which leaves a society without children or families. And yes, that applies to men too; the 1-4% who can actually get sex with enough women in order to be considered "manwhores/f*ckboys." Most of us are not.

    And just to make the distinction, I am not talking about people who have a lot of sex with one person or their partners. I am talking about people having random, sloppy loose sex with strangers, and spreading their juices all around town. Anything that spreads hedonism, no responsibilities for your actions, STD's unwanted pregnancies (getting back to the abortion crap again), and people unfit to be parents, or properly raise children, is ALL bad for society. And there's far more problems with that in current society than just promiscuity and hoes being hoes.

    That logic doesn't even make sense, anyway. Most men don't want a chick who's been all around town, has the Grand Canyon for a pussy, and probably has STDs. (Some guys would want that, but the majority wouldn't.) Are you saying this as a defense mechanism or what? I know you're a size queen.

    • Also, I never understood the wanting a virgin thing. Virgins are the least likely to want sex, am I right? I wouldn't mind dating a virgin, but I don't require one, either. The unofficial "body count" rule is "be with less people than half your current age." Cause a 30 year old who's been with more than 15 men, is considered a lot, I guess.

  • Men like that just don't want women sleeping around with other guys, but would probably be happy to marry 30 women in a cult.

  • I think many men that are against "hookup culture" are just jealous they are not the ones hooking up

  • @purplepoppy I absolutely agree with you 100%! It's the only reason that makes any kind of good sense. They are assholes for one, secondly they haven't figured out yet that they are the reason they don't date or get laid, and it's ugly that they speak ugly about any subject to a stranger looking for advice, rather than their hateful built up aggression filled trash that seems appropriate in their minds, again because they still don't get that the thinking and speaking they do is also the reason they've been jerking off since they were young.. I say if you are not hurting anyone else, or doing much self harm then do you and keep your ugly discouraging thinking to yourself. Don't be yelling at my dog cause you stepped in your dogs pile this morning lol

  • Bitter men, incels and beaters tend not to have much of a sex life to begin with.

    We tend to call their partners "victims" to be fair.

  • Sorry, poppy, I don't agree. That's just men who are misinformed.

  • I disagree. People (men and women) with good morals wouldn't want a partner that had casual sex and that thinks of sex as only physical pleasure and not part of a special bond between two people.

    Pathetic people that sleep around and know they will NEVER have any value to good people often make posts like these, and often delete the comments pointing it out because they can only get hook ups and good people avoid them.

  • Well, look at this way. Let's say I'm a male with an MBA from Harvard. And I want the same CEO job as a female with an MBA also from Harvard. Knowing that in addition to salary, bonuses, stock options, etc that I could be a millionaire if it weren't for that bitch, then I'd love to see her get pregnant and miss the interview because of morning sickness -- that's millions of dollars in my pocket and she can stay home and raise that baby because fuck her.

  • Sounds about right to me.

  • Probably false, honestly.

  • Women who sleep around make terrible mothers and wives. Don't do it if you want a quality man and successful marriage.

    https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/#:~:text=If%20your%20parents%20married%20others,higher%20when%20both%20partners%20do.

    Your nonsense is right up there with this crap:

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/U6uGRjAJL8M

    Just hurt women, that are lashing out because they fcked themselves out of a chance with a quality man. Suddenly he's gay or a pedophile if he doesn't want your big ass. Or in your case, "he's just bitter and can't get laid." These women cry themselves to sleep every night when no one is around.

  • *Pussy*. And yes, you’re probably right, for many. Or at least the pussy they want.

    And if we’re going to point fingers here, let’s throw around another theory. The girls on GAG tend to be those outright skanks that guys treated like toilet paper growing up.

    The pool here seems like a logical match, but it doesn’t work for relationships. Why?

    “GAG” is such an appropriate term for this site. Feminists empowering themselves to gag on every cock they can and men gagging at the fact that have to settle for the sluts that do it.

    I will say that sluts tend to be more courageous when it comes to discussing these things with strangers. Doesn’t condone the actions themselves, but it’s just an observation.

    What was it I read a girl say, “Welcome to GAG where all the guys have huge dicks and all the girls have tight pussies.”

  • Haha bruh nah

  • LOL... I agree with you, as I usually do!! But I have to burst your bubble a bit. It's not a new theory, and I first heard it as a joke many years ago. Goes like this:

    Q: What's the difference between a whore and a slut to a man?

    A: A whore will fuck anybody. A slut will fuck anybody but him!!!

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