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Did he cheat?
note: he's never used a condom to masturabate before from the time I've known him. So this is not likely reason.
What do you you guys think?
Should I ask him? If so how should I approach it so that he doesn't get offended that I keep count and been through his draw?
What Girls & Guys Said
34 56Waiting for the stove to heat up so you could boil his bunny and you decided to go count his condoms?
I think it's unreasonable that you're even counting, why would you do that unless you already don't trust him. Do you have trust issues or are you really insecure? It sounds like you should either examine yourself, or if you know you're good then just break up with him...
It's likely he gave it to a friend. Also, unless you want friction in your relationship, it would do you well to quit your snooping. If he were to find out about such, I doubt it would be pretty.
He could have given the condom to a friend or brother lmao
But I mean, it's possible but I wouldn't go to suspecting cheating immediately.
Lol I had the same thought.
There are a lot of plausible explanations for why he could have one less condom and only one of those reasons is cheating.
That could be a possibility but in all honestly, he should throw away all his condoms. Condom usage is immoral. I mean, why should making babies be a side effect rather than a benefit to having sex? If you're not ready to bring babies into the world, then refrain from sexual intercourse. Notice I said sexual intercourse and not sexual activity. Using condoms is 1 of the most selfish acts than a man/couple can do.
To answer question though, I think since 1 month passed by, that he likely lost it with other things, you could have miscounted or that someone could have actually stole it. He could have given it away and it if concerns you, confront him. Since there's no way to prove he's lying or telling the truth, then it's like the court says: innocent until proven guilty. It's likely if he did use it that he'd lie about it since you can't prove it 1 way or the other.
I can't believe you actually count his condoms regularly. Someone's got major trust issues.
Or a troll
You are going to sound crazy as hell if you ask him. Maybe his friend took one there could be a few other logical reasons. Just keep your eyes open and be more aware, but don't approach with little to go on.
Does he have friends 🤔 lol my friends ask me for condoms all the time don't worry and if he did cheat at least it was only once 😂😂
No, you more likely miss counted. Honestly, you cheat on him. So you took a condom out and use it whit another male. Is it funny how you female worded your question to make the male doing something wrong. It you who cheated.
I feel bad for you. The fact that you go to such lengths to count condoms shows how insecure you are. If you can't trust your boyfriend then why are you with him in the first place? Be single if you can't handle being in a relationship or can't trust someone.
He probably just used one to practice how to use it right. :)
Hoe to put it right, and stuff... better know how to deal with it.
So, then he tells you that he threw one away for what ever reason. you have already decided what he did with it, why would you even ask us about it? You won't believe any answer he gives.
Just ask him.
You could see from his reaction.
I wouldn't mind being asked that.
I can tolerate a little snooping if its someone close, like a girlfriend and as long as you dont always go paranoid. Its kinda cute
does he have roommates
Why do you count?
I would ask him. Because I would love to know if my girlfriend is paranoid, so I can dump her.
Why would you count the condoms do you have trust issues. There could be lots of reasons the condom is missing but only one reason you counted them
You really dont know guys. He probably tried to find out how many beer cans can a condom hold. Or see if it explodes if you fill it up with gasoline.
this is very complicated due to the lack of information. i would recommended not bringing it up and give him the benefit of the doubt. yes it is possible he cheated but it is possible he didn't too. maybe you miscounted.