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Sexual Health My boyfriend forced me to have sex?
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My boyfriend was really horny and I was super tired since I was out working all day. He asked me to have sex and I was too aggrevated so I straight up said no. He stayed silent for a second, faced me, and said "what did you just say?". I turned around to tell him I said no, but he grabbed my hand and put me over his shoulders and carried me to the room. What happened next is self explanatory. He was extremely rough, rougher than he's ever been before. It hurt, but I can't say I didn't enjoy it. I orgasmed like 4 times. I have mixed feelings about this. Is it still counted as rape if I enjoyed it? Am I over thinking it and should just let it go?
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I forgot to add that I did speak to him about this, I told him that it hurt my feelings that he didn't listen to me and respect the fact that I didn't wanna have sex. He didn't exactly apologize, he said "I know, it won't happen again" and then he just changed the topic.
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Thank you all so much for your responses 💞. Although I believe many of you said to break up with him or to press charges. There were still some of you who said that its the first time and to not overreact. That is the choice I've made. I'm gonna give him another chance, I am 100% positive he loves me-no doubt. He's never done anything like this before. He said he won't do it again. I'm not gonna go all psycho and break up with him. I'm gonna give him a chance, if it happens again, I'll see.
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11 26break up with him.
Maybe you've missed my update, I've made my decision
forcing someone is not right but he loves you & he is not a rapist everybody deserves a second chance
You're right
thankyou for understanding
His feelings for her don't mean this wasn't rape. She literally said no and he physically forced her. That's rape, no way around it, period.
Clear cut rape.
if he forces you, he doesn't deserve you! Thats so mean! you can't let him do that to you
ask him why he did it.
He said it won't happen again.
First time this has happened.
I think it would be an overreaction to break up with your boyfriend over one thing. I mean, you love each other, right? If he does it again, then definitely consider breaking up/talking to someone.
If I were a girl raped by her own boyfriend I would break up. But if you enjoyed this situation it means that maybe you can just let it go if it will not happen again
If you feel like you were forced then dump him. It all depends on how you feel about it, do you feel raped or do you feel like he got you in the mood when you weren't I initially in the mood.
did he say surprise?
We enjoy your erotica. Try to post it on erotica site.
Technically it's rape. it doesn't matter if you enjoyed or not. He can cross limits next time, tbh I don't think he has feelings for you. he's just using you to fulfil his sexual desires.
He does have feelings for me