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Sexual Health Guys, my boyfriend gets a boner for woman on internet and TV what I have to think about it?
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Last night I have a big fight with him, I still didn't feel comfortable what happen that midday so I cleared my heart. Because I caught him getting a boner when I show something on the internet a "gif" from girls shaking around their boobs and butts. I just joke and look in his pants there I saw it rockhard. So I ask why it's hard already I didn't even touch my hand there. Than he said a fake reason, because he have breathing problem so that connect to his penis. Bullshit to me. So that night I said to him be honest. When I hear the truth it broke my heart. Than he become angry and all, say to me I have to be real, he is a man and not gay feel attract to woman. But the result above all: Men get boner for woman, not that they want to have sex with them or find them attractive, it's nature "the woman is calling for sex" like an animal so man get boner if they see like this. Last what he said, those woman try to attract is basic style every man get boner to that but you are special even when you just wear beautiful clothes you give me boner. So is it all true what he said? Because I still feel lack of confidence on myself? How I can go normally to the beach without my boner boyfriend gets a rockhard? But he said on the internet and TV is different than reality in real life he will not get. But I don't trust it. I still feel like tears coming up! Please help me to clear this things up! Because I read something else before a man do feel attract on woman and want sex with them if they have a boner, so what my boyfriend say is a lie right?
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Sorry, my English grammar is not good. I hope you guys understand what I meant.
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What Guys Said
(21)No offence, but I found that so hard to read...
First... Posts this long never get read by guys, cut out 90% lmao 2nd be thankful that he gets that hard that often 3rd guys get rock hard from time to time for no reason 4th tell him that its rude and not to be watching that stuff around you. I have a simular problem with that fox news chick Anna Koiman, when my girl comes over I need to turn it off cause I find myself getting sexually aroused just by watching her
you really got mad about that? wow.. because when a guy sees an attractive girl he thinks about having sex with her. its fucking nature
You saw a rock hard penis and argued about it?
You should have hopped on, and make him forget why it got hard in the first place. lol
You could made him forget why it got hard and remember why it stayed hard. lol
In my opinion, dont be angry and shout infront of him, tell him not to do that again and not looking to women except u and your body.
He may dont find your relationship with him is perfect, sexual relationship is very important.
so long as e don't act on it.
I could be having a threesome with Nicki Minaj and Kim Kardashian every night but imma still have a boner for Jennifer Lopez if i see her
It feels warm and heavy in the crotch area. Most of the time I get a boner for no reason.
Don't be stupid. It's natural response for a man to be aroused by sexual stimulation whether physical, mental or psychological. Just because he is with you doesn't turn off his natural instincts. He's a male. Males respond to sexual stimulation by becoming erect. If you have a problem with this, you are going to have a problem with every relationship you have. Make or female. Humans can still be attracted to someone without having to act on it and it doesn't lessen their feelings for you. Stop taking it so personally. You need to grow up and understand that no person will not become aroused by anyone else. It's just not gonna happen. The problem here lies within yourself. Your insecurity is the issue. Not his arousal. You showed him the gif. That's your fault. If it bothers you that much and you can't get past it I suggest you just start collecting cats now because it's going to be a lonely ride for you.