Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health Guys, my boyfriend is obsessed with oral sex, how do I get him to make it about me.. sometimes?
ChelseaGlow Xper 4
So, I love my boyfriend completely, I'd do anything for him. We've been together for 5-6 months. I do his washing, cooking & cleaning without even batting an eyelid. This morning I cooked him bacon & eggs before he left for work. Anyway, I'm a generous lover, I recently worked out how to deep throat (much to his delight). He said at the start of our relationship he's fetish was oral. Fair enough, everyone has a button they don't admit they want pressed, I'm glad he was honest. My kinks are a little more.. dark, so I am fully open to fetishes. Do I want him to engage in my kinks? Absolutely not. But I would like to feel more connected. For the past month I've been going down on him everyday give or take, but we hardly have sex & when we do he cums way too early for me. I've tried vibrators & I find myself masturbating during the day. I just get sad because I want to feel intimacy and a connection, I'm a sensual girl, I need to know my man cares about me. Before you bring it up, "just tell him directly.." I have. I'm a direct person. Even through my tears, I've explained to him I need more sexually and he admits he's being, quote " a selfish piece of shit.." and he's just "tired from his job" - he DOES have a more demanding role now in comparison to when I first met him. I've asked whether there's a problem with me and he says absolutely not and when he is inside of me, he repeatedly tells me how "amazing I feel..". Despite this, he just goes back to coming home, getting on Xbox and at around 11pm he's begging me to wake up and go down on him. We did move in together quite fast and have spent everyday together since we met.. we just enjoy each other's company, we're both quiet, placid people who enjoy the peacefulness of each other. But.. I'm planning on going away for the weekend to work & visit family, I feel like if he has the opportunity to miss me it might cause him to desire me more? When I told him I was going away he looked kind of terrified and upset. Help xo
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(24)just tell him he´s not gonna have fun till you´re satisfied first. make him earn what you do for him, if he doesn´t do it naturally.
Ahahahaha, I will definitely give it a red hot go..
God, you sound so miserable and that’s awful! I’d do all that for you or a person such as you. I cook, clean and am very sensual and would light a candle and take care of your body. I do that now and don’t get much reciprocation or romance either lol.
Make him sucking dick. He'll know what you feel))
Um what? I'm not going to suggest my partner sucks a dick ahahaha
Hahaha
That's pretty selfish to say the least.
I'm the opposite, I LOVE going down on a girl.
Break up your routine with him so he HAS to make changes and please you too.
Yeah, I'm going to try going out more at night or taking up a class so he'll get home and won't have easy access to me all the time, he might value the time we do spend together a little bit more?
You can only try. I mean it's certainly all about him isn't it? It might be hard at first but the sooner you try to break the cycle the better. I still don't get how a guy can not want to go down on a girl or 69 but oh well...
Become a dentist
ba-dum-tss
Uh, yep.
or pretend to freak out...
Freak out? How? I don't want to play mindgames with him ahahaha
I think thats a good plan. You should also give you something in return
Stop sucking his dick all the time if he gets it without recipicating then he will give to get and one more thing fflirt with another guy he. Will start caring about your needs
Its vise versa for me. If you like getting oral well to put it bluntly wake him up with u grinding on him. Or playing with yourself. It get me excited to walk in and find my other doing that lol. Give that a shot.
He's seen me use my vibrator, did nothing for him. Just acted like I was drinking a coffee ahahaha
Was he dropped on his head as a baby? I mean look at you your gorgeous he should be kissing you every where he can exspecially the spots that turn u on the most. Tell him you want to feel his lips on your body more :)
He's just had a poor run with some bad women so his confidence is way low. I can't even talk to guys in stores without him getting upset I'll leave him. It doesn't help when people tell him he's "punching above his weight" which annoys me because I think he's the most beautiful creature on the planet. Apart from sea turtles.
I don't know koalas are pretty cute lol. As far as that goes I am the same way my girl is gorgeous and out of my league. I was engaged before and was left because I didn't like guys around her. The only thing u can do is keep trying. Tell him to sleep naked get yourself horny while u sleep and wake him up to u grinding on him lol. Always works for me
Just try me , ill be giving u helping hand in bed and daily routine too 😘😘
I personally would give you head without a question