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Sexual Health My boyfriend said he'll kill me during sex. Am I over thinking it?
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So my boyfriend is 35 years old. I'm 23, and I love the guy. He treats me really good; pays when we go out, pays for my taxi. We bring each others kiddish heart out and playful side. He tells me that he needs me and wants me for his wife. He wants me for his everything, and tells me "I love you" over text. But recently while I was having sex, he said that he'll kill me if I give my body away. He's a talker in bed so i didn't think much of it. He's aggressive during sex thst sometimes its painful. Pulls my hair, when i tell him to go slower, he goes even rougher. I Remer once he put his hand over my mouth when i told him to go slower while moaning loudly st a hotel. I'm not sure if its because people would have heard us or.. whatever I don't know. But am ib over thinking it?
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13 16I think you need to pay closer attention to his behavior or it might get worse.
If I were you... I'd leave. I don't understand women logic sometimes...
"He treats me really good; pays when we go out, pays for my taxi."
So, if every man does this for you, you will sleep with them?
Is not him about paying. Is about the fact he treats me good, we can talk, we can laugh, we go bowling, play pool, we can watch movies, have deep talk... is just it seems he is crazy in bed
No one is perfect , you said he pay everything , but appearently he also have red flag
You are not overthinking , that guy have serious mental problem
That's strange. His behavior changes completely when you guys are having sex.
You should be careful or break up with him.
He seems dangerous.
That's what I'm saying. Is only sex, he changes how he is. Then we go back to normal.
I see. But I still think you should be careful and pay attention to him. That's not normal.