My boyfriend tells me a few of his buddies are sexually attracted to me and that they leer at my boobs when I'm having a downblouse?

Some of them have been his best of friends for nearly 2 decades now and I have been told they do this to all the girls and myself very often and intentionally stare at your boobs at any chance. How do you deal with information like this?

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Thank you for all the input and comments. Just to update, I do not wear clothes with lots of cleavage and this things happen when im seated or leaned over to the front. My boyfriend's intentions for telling me is to just warn me of their behaviour. He said it was up to me whether I'm OK with others peering down my clothes.
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  • Some guys have nothing better to do than peer down women's blouses, which, to me says a lot about a guy.

    If they do this, even attempt to photograph her, and talk about it with their friends, their parents did not teach them squat about respecting a persons privacy.

    On the other hand, if you open your blouse to attract those sorts, then I guess it kinds of falls back to your choices and the kind of person you are willing to attract.

    So it goes back to the old saying... You get what you pay for.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Some guy have a shitty taste of privacy and don’t have much manners, either take it as a compliment as you’re sexually appealing or sarcastically make fun of their immaturity and see them melt as they’re not used to woman reacting to their bad behavior.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Wear clothes that don't show your boobs so there will be no down blouse. Too many women dress to attract guys and show off their wares, and then gripe about it when they look or stare.

    My boyfriend tells me a few of his buddies are sexually attracted to me and that they leer at my boobs when I'm having a downblouse?
  • Like the rest of us women you just need to remember that Boys Will Be Boys!

    And understand that it's purely the Joys Of Being A Woman!

    • The “boys will be boys” crap is so immature and back-wards honestly, if i were a woman i would simply make fun of their immaturity and see them roll over from the fact that you actually confront them about it. Guys do this plenty of times, but if you actually react to it they’ll be suprised and sometimes even a little scared.

    • Thank you for the MHO.

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  • The most important question is: why would he tell you about this?

  • Societal hypocrisy collides with Natural evolution and 'unlearning' juvenile un-truths...
    Societal hypocrisy collides with Natural evolution and 'unlearning' juvenile un-truths...
  • It comes with the territory. I learned to live with that she's ago.

  • Call the creeps out on it, mocking them for their immaturity.

    • Agree

  • "ok, so what does that mean"?

    Guys like boobs, in some cases, they are boob stupid. if it's a problem, cover them up.

  • it happens with every boyfriend and every boyfriend's friends, don't worry about it

  • I would see his friends as fucking dogs honestly but meh some guys enjoy circle jeering about this shit

    • ^ This

  • Depends how you feel about it. Does it turn you on or make ou anxious?

  • Well just be flattered honey
    My boyfriend shows them my pics himself lol he even has a naked pic of me as his phone's wallpaper

  • Big Boobs always attract any dude.

    No matter what they say, they prefer at big tiits (at least a Full C cup for me).

    If you're purposely wearing tight dresses or shirts that show off your cleavage (which it sounds like you're doing on purpose), you can expect a lot of attention

  • Some men are such pigs. I wouldn't put up with that shit, it is so disrespectful.

    • Pigs is a little over the top, they’re just disrespectful and need some manners.

  • Your knocking on 30 and you are just now realizing that men like boobs?

  • Why not take it as a compliment? Haven't you noticed his friends ogling your boobs?

  • not something id share with a girl im dating or messing with

  • This happened to me once with my wife she ended up having sex with my wife to get it out of there system

  • It's normal behaviour for immature young men unfortunately 😕

  • its compliment.

  • Sorry if it bothers you. When I find a woman attractive, I look. My eyes tend to look at the parts I like. I try to keep the eyeing brief.

  • I accept that all guys enjoy looking at my breasts. Wearing a low cut shirt means I better enjoy the attention. Otherwise I cover up more.

    Wouldn't be new info to me. Personally, would be flattered by the compliment.

  • he's nicely hinting that you need to cover up