My boyfriend told me he used prostitutes?

I said i find it dirty and he said he just used their service sometimes in the past and that all man use it

I said i find it nasty he sees womens body as object

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He used to do ot like 4 years ago last time
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  • So he didn't do it when you was together?

    I think you should both get check for STD's would be good!

    Other than that it's like saying he shouldn't have had a girlfriend before you..

    What he was before he met you should not define who he is now he's with you! You may see it as disgusting as many would and others will have the opposite opinion to that.

    If it bothers you that much then maybe end things now! If you can get past it then leave it in the past and move on!

Most Helpful Guys

  • I don't see what the issue is. What difference from dinner date Netflix and chill?

    Trips to

    Thailand (Phuket great city the women their come to you)

    Dominican Republic beautiful women not that expensive either and grateful.

    Brazil (I haven't been yet but heard great things.)

    Mexico, next door neighbor if you don't got a lot of money quick drive over there

    Amsterdam a little more expensive and kinda ovare errated.

    If your ever in east Africa try Eritrean women.

    • What you trhing to say?

  • Just know that amongst men it’s neither commonly accepted or deemed normal. I have one friend I know who visited brothels and even had one of the hookers become his girlfriend. I don’t think it’s normal or something ‘to be proud of’. Then again, I try not to judge but I would never do it myself.

    • He says all men he knows did it, all our coworkers, all his friends And says the man who say ne ver did ot lies All men do it he says I said to him :i think its like eating from garbage Where everyone shits and ghrows dirt and rubbish and you go and eat that

    • I’m anonymous here, no need to lie or brag here, never went and consider it indeed garbage like most of my male friends.

    • @itsmykolajenkins some men defend that they ‘need’ sexual release to function normally. That’s maybe different from man to man, and in my opinion nothing a good handjob can’t fix.

Most Helpful Girl

  • He can easily get diseases so be careful if you stay with him and he is still doing this

    • He did it innpast an d said the whore were clean and tbey shower and have medical tests 🤢🤮

    • My dad told me 4 things to never believe 1) The check is in the mail 2) I will pull out before I cum 3) I promise, I will never show your nudes to anyone ever, and 4) Don't worry, if you give me a blowjob, it will be our secret... lol

    • Your guy may have come up with a good 5th one to add to the list... lol

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  • I've never used one.

  • Prostitution is likely the only honest interaction between heterosexual men and women. It’s not objectification in the slightest.

    • I dont understand

  • But whats the question here honey

    • Well If its truth that all men fuck whores

    • well i wouldn't say all but may be most of them but i can say one thing for sure that not all of them who fuck us are bad persons... many times they do it out of stress or social reasons

    • My guy told me he did it when stoned or drunk or horny after night club He says he nevwr did it while having a relationship

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  • To be honest I never did.

  • If so, then prostitutes are just objectifying themselves.

    • What?

  • Yeah, that's really slimy. I wouldn't date someone like that.

    • Well i am He says he wants to be honest with me

    • Okay. That's your choice. None of my business, really lol.

  • Well, its an issue if you can't move past this.

    • I must move on?

    • Why? It happened long before you met him.

    • He says he wanna be honest I know... im just overthinking

  • So every time you fornicated, it was true love?

  • At your age you can't afford to be too picky.

    • she's not 42 she's 32 lol

  • 3 Qs!
    (1) Is he still using them or planning to do so?
    (2) Did he catch anything?
    (3) Can you live with it, if its done?

  • I'm a man and I have never used a prostitute.

  • so are you mad at men or women that sell pssy to men? because men will go for the "Pussy" 99% of the time... also a lot of guys that date a girl, take her to dinner, a concert and maybe other forms of nightlife, are paying for sex... unless the woman always pays 50% of the bill too

  • Okay so now what where do you go from here

    • No idea Now what

    • What I mean is are you so grossed out that you want to leave him or do you think it's something you can get past

    • Im extra grossed out and disgusted but i sucked his cock yesterday and alsp i love jim a lot and his body So i dunno He said he likes me and there is nothing in me he doesn't like

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  • I've never used one.

  • Another way of lookin at that it is us actually objectifyin y'all sexually is what makes us actually wanna deal with ya in the first place ya can't have it both ways ya gotta choose a side of the coin and take a stance

    • What? If women did tbat 90%od men would be gay or sibgle lol

  • There's nothing wrong in it

  • I believe more men out there do this than are willing to admit or disclose because they don't want to have to go through the drama or burden of courting a woman or initiating interactions with women and seducing them and taking the lead with them

  • He doesn’t see womens bodies as objects, he used paid services to get what women so ignorantly get without effort. The women selling their vaginas were using their bodies as objects.

    Do you own a dildo or a vibrator?

    Have you ever used vegetables, a toothbrush, or any other phallic item to get off?

  • That’s awful.

  • But sex workers just selling their body. So he pays to use it.

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