My boyfriend wants to have threesome, but I'm not okay with it. What should I do?

It's been year me and my boyfriend dating each other and it seems like he is desperate for threesome. I am genuinely not interested so I said no several times. I understand his fantasy but I also know threesome will ruin our relationship and my way to look at him. The slight thought of it also makes me cry. my body is horrible and I'm not really attractive woman thought of being naked in front of another girl really scary for me.
I said no many time already.
Now boyfriend badly wants 2 females in bed anyhow it doesn't even matter to him if I'm not gonna be there and it's really upsetting me because obviously I'm not enough for him and he wants to do it with someone else who is not me. For me it's nice man's way of cheating. I'm very sad and stressed
What should I do? I have started loosing interest from him because of this situation. How should I cope up with this situation?
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Thank you everyone! My situation has been resolved. I appreciate everyone of you being honest and kind.
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  • Sadly this shows and proves that you're not compatible, therefore it's time to go your separate ways and move on with your lives.

  • Get a new boyfriend, one that has the same values as you.

  • Absolutely say no.

  • Most guys who want a threesome fantasize about having two girls to sleep with. However, you can flip the script by saying that you will only do it it’s him and another guy. Or you can tell him that you don’t feel comfortable. If he loves you, then he will respect your wishes

  • So end the relationship

  • Tell him you won't, it's a hard limit, and to please stop asking. If he keeps asking, then you get to decide whether you want to stay with him.

  • Best cut ties as he's probably cheating. Hence not really interested in you, but trying to bring his side piece into the picture.

  • Your boyfriend is not respecting you. Many guys, me included, have FFM fantasies, but unless our SO us okay with it, it remains only a fantasy. Time to get a new boyfriend.

  • Tell him you are not interested and if he can't accept that, cut him loose.

  • Tell him no. You can't have a committed relationship doing that.

  • try to to talk to him about it and make your feelings known.
    Hopefully he will understand.
    3 ways have wrecked many relationships & marriages

  • I recommend breaking up with him.

  • Well that doesn’t mean your not enough for him all men have that fantasy and it can be quite enjoyable for all you might like it it can be a turn on even for the women

  • I can understand this, You have your preferences and this is an issue for you. Your boyfriend should understand and respect your feelings. A threesome with two women is something I would like to experience but I know my wife would have issues with it. I just put it on the list of the million things in the universe that I can't have and concentrate on the million things in the universe that I can.

  • If he doesn't respect your wishes and continues to pressure you, it's probably time for you to move on.

  • Simple - don't do it.

  • Break up with him. Find a guy who doesn’t care about the outward appearance and is only interested in you.

  • Don't do anything that you are not comfortable with

  • Time for a new boyfriend. He's either going to do it behind your back or just leave you eventually because he wants the fantasy more than he wants you. Sorry, but you'll be better off without that in your life.

  • I would never let my man fuck another girl in my own bed !!

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