Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health It's been year me and my boyfriend dating each other and it seems like he is desperate for threesome. I am genuinely not interested so I said no several times. I understand his fantasy but I also know threesome will ruin our relationship and my way to look at him. The slight thought of it also makes me cry. my body is horrible and I'm not really attractive woman thought of being naked in front of another girl really scary for me.
I said no many time already.
Now boyfriend badly wants 2 females in bed anyhow it doesn't even matter to him if I'm not gonna be there and it's really upsetting me because obviously I'm not enough for him and he wants to do it with someone else who is not me. For me it's nice man's way of cheating. I'm very sad and stressed
What should I do? I have started loosing interest from him because of this situation. How should I cope up with this situation?
My boyfriend wants to have threesome, but I'm not okay with it. What should I do?
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Thank you everyone! My situation has been resolved. I appreciate everyone of you being honest and kind.
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23 63Don't do it
stay true to what you believe. And if he don't then I think you know that answer. If he does try and push you or does it without you he broke up with you at that point not you leaving him. he has the choice to make , not you. you made yours,. you said no. Good for you staying true to what you believe and knowing the risks it has and how it can result. Best of luck , and stay you and someone if not him will see what they have and you are more then enough for that special someone. Best wishes.
Tell him you’re not okay with it.
Simple, then tell him no and don't ask you again.
If he agrees to mfm first then you can do fmf
Tell him ok, 2 guys and a girl. See what he thinks then.
Tell him no and leave him
Does he know hat you don't see yourself as attractive? Honestly the idea of doing it with two hot girls at the same time is probably what turns him on. He wouldn't be asking you for it if he considered you ugly.
You can really only do two things.
1) Allow him to do what he wants, with or without you.
2) Give him an ultimatum, never talk about it again or you break up.
Dump him.
Find another boyfriend, unless you don't mind wanting to be with someone who clearly does not love you.
tell him no. if he can't handle it, break up
well, what was the resolution
He clearly doesn't care about you. I'd try to make you understand but I wouldn't be mean like that
do not do anything you are not comfortable doing and he should respect that...
Tell him that you're going to say "NO" only one more time. And if he continues to persist, say goodby to him
say no
Dump this guy. You are just going to have problems
If he wants a 3some and you're not comfortable about it, then that should be that. Now that he wants it even without you, then time to end things since he does not respect your position on the matter.
tell him that you will do it only if it's a boy-boy-girl threesome. Then start naming off a few guys that you want to add to the party... He will change his mind...
Don't have
This is crazy , he shouldn't come up with this idea if he really love you. Real life is way different than porn life. You love him and you want to spend life with him but he want to be a little whore and want to explore other pussy. I think you should leave him. You will find someone like you , who actually belive in true love.