My boyfriend woke me at 5 am for sex and than ask me why I am upset should I answer him?

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Superb Opinion

  • If you spend the night in my bed, I, absolutely, will wake you up for sex. Maybe it will be in the middle of the night, maybe in the morning, and quite likely both. So, yeah, if you don’t want that, you should definitely explain to me. Otherwise, I’m going to wake up at 2 AM, find you there, and grab you.

    When I have had partners who stayed with me long-term, we set some expectations and boundaries about sex. But I will confess that I still sometimes woke them up in the middle of the night. I’m not entirely lucid myself at 2 AM.

    • And how did they react being woken up at 2am for sex?

Most Helpful Guy

  • Of course you should answer him, why wouldn't you? I'm sound asleep, I need my rest. I'm not in the mood to be having sex,

    • he did it again today

    • Have you fucked him when he woke you up

Most Helpful Girls

  • To each their own, but I would love it. Don't lose the spark or the sexual excitement in your relationship. I think a man can harbor a bit of resentment if they feel shunned or like they are being told when they can and can't make love to you. Just make sure that they can express their passion when they want to without fear of being shutdown.

    • I think a person should respect another’s wishes; but it’s so very nice that you like it, and are considerate of your guy’s desires and are concerned about his reactions to what you do too!

  • $ am is too early even for a b/j unless you are already awake.

    • right.

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  • I get woken up for, or WITH, sex prob. every couple weeks, I consider it normal, but it depends on the relationship and what everybody is comfortable with, if you are not comfortable w it I would tell him and, he should respect that. JMO!

  • i just let him do it and say just cum fast

    • i spread my legs he said no i want head

    • Oh my! No, I would never wake you up and demand head. Even if I was a total jerk, how would that be good for me?

    • Nice one haha

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  • Well that's rude, I don't blame you if you want to shun him for a while, I know how it is to value your sleep and I agree with you, he shouldn't be doing that

  • Answer by keeping your legs closed! Maybe for a week!

    • thats kinda hard

  • If what he did bothers you, why wouldn't you speak up?

  • Well i would definitely not be upset about tht n i love getting awake like that

  • When people complain about the benefits...

  • Sometimes people are horny. If the roles were reversed he would probably not be as upset as you are.

    • i dont woke up that early.

  • Yes, of course you should.

    • okay i guess

  • I would be too had my deep sleep been disturbed... I with you on that one girl.

  • Are you five? Of course you should communicate with him about the situation. Also not making dinner as a punishment is immature af. He isn't your child.

    • wow. he's young enough to be my child

  • I think some girls want to be woken up. Other girls would rather their guy masturbate at 5AM. Maybe that's a conversation to have with him.

  • What a dumbass. Why would you ruin someone's sleep?

    • right im not gonna make him dinner tonight

    • Lol he doesn't cook either? What a catch.

    • he has a huge penis

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  • smh... bruh

  • Yes, that was inconsiderate of him on the one hand. On the other hand, iy tells you that he finds you attractive and desirable.

    I would suggest a conversation about what you consider acceptable and unacceptable practices and behaviors.

  • Maybe he was too horny, just let him help himself out quickly.

  • Lmfao

  • why are you upset? fkn enjoy it

  • You shouldn't be upset You should just be grateful lol

  • Yes, communicate

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