My boyfriend woke me at 5 am for sex and than ask me why I am upset should I answer him?

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Paul_in_Indy · Accepted Answer

If you spend the night in my bed, I, absolutely, will wake you up for sex. Maybe it will be in the middle of the night, maybe in the morning, and quite likely both. So, yeah, if you don’t want that, you should definitely explain to me. Otherwise, I’m going to wake up at 2 AM, find you there, and grab you.

When I have had partners who stayed with me long-term, we set some expectations and boundaries about sex. But I will confess that I still sometimes woke them up in the middle of the night. I’m not entirely lucid myself at 2 AM.

20yearsolder · Accepted Answer

Of course you should answer him, why wouldn't you? I'm sound asleep, I need my rest. I'm not in the mood to be having sex,

shyonehere · Accepted Answer

To each their own, but I would love it. Don't lose the spark or the sexual excitement in your relationship. I think a man can harbor a bit of resentment if they feel shunned or like they are being told when they can and can't make love to you. Just make sure that they can express their passion when they want to without fear of being shutdown.

Emilyis · Accepted Answer

$ am is too early even for a b/j unless you are already awake.

ShellyB · Answer

I get woken up for, or WITH, sex prob. every couple weeks, I consider it normal, but it depends on the relationship and what everybody is comfortable with, if you are not comfortable w it I would tell him and, he should respect that. JMO!

rachel776 · Answer

i just let him do it and say just cum fast

MementoMori777 · Answer

Well that's rude, I don't blame you if you want to shun him for a while, I know how it is to value your sleep and I agree with you, he shouldn't be doing that

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Answer by keeping your legs closed! Maybe for a week!

elizamichale1 · Answer

Well i would definitely not be upset about tht n i love getting awake like that

FilmGuy93 · Answer

If what he did bothers you, why wouldn't you speak up?

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

When people complain about the benefits...

JPresidente · Answer

Sometimes people are horny. If the roles were reversed he would probably not be as upset as you are.

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes, of course you should.

BJP21 · Answer

I would be too had my deep sleep been disturbed... I with you on that one girl.

DrewJohnson · Answer

I think some girls want to be woken up. Other girls would rather their guy masturbate at 5AM. Maybe that's a conversation to have with him.

jayhams · Answer

Are you five? Of course you should communicate with him about the situation. Also not making dinner as a punishment is immature af. He isn't your child.

In_Trance · Answer

smh... bruh

Guardian45 · Answer

Yes, that was inconsiderate of him on the one hand. On the other hand, iy tells you that he finds you attractive and desirable.

I would suggest a conversation about what you consider acceptable and unacceptable practices and behaviors.

Paul09 · Answer

What a dumbass. Why would you ruin someone's sleep?

nudeNhorny · Answer

Maybe he was too horny, just let him help himself out quickly.

Teriyaki70 · Answer

Lmfao

Batz2u · Answer

why are you upset? fkn enjoy it

CubaPirate · Answer

You shouldn't be upset You should just be grateful lol

Cedman · Answer

Yes, communicate

My boyfriend woke me at 5 am for sex and than ask me why I am upset should I answer him?

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