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Sexual Health My boyfriends best friend raped me. Should I tell him?
Anonymous
My boyfriend was throwing a party last night for his birthday at his house. We were having a fun time with all of his friends loud music and everything. I got really drunk and sick so i went to my boyfriends room to go lay down. After about an hour of throwing up and hovering over the toilet i hear the door open i thought it was my boyfriend coming to check up on me so I got up and when I turned around his best friend was standing in the doorway. Trying to clear my head i asked him what he was doing here and told him that i was fine. He came up behind me and started touching me and kissing my neck. I pushed him away and told him to stop but he kept doing it. He pushed me on the bed and got on top of me forcing himself on me putting his hands up my skirt. I kept trying to push him off but it was like my arms were not strong enough and I kept passing out. He was taking off his pants I told him to stop and I remeber i kept grabbing his belt trying to stop him. He grabbed my hands and pinned me down continuing what he was doing. I started screaming for my boyfriend as loud as I could but he put his hand over my mouth and raped me. He told me that if i told my boyfriend that he would say that I seduced him Advice
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What Girls & Guys Said
10 19If your boyfriend really loves you and trusts you, then he will take your word over his friend's. Even if he doesn't believe you, he will when his friend is behind bars.
Yes! Tell your boyfriend and go to the police
That is NOT okay and vile people like him should not be allowed to get away with something so horrible
If your boyfriend loves you he will support you, but please go to the police
Hope you're okay
Yes tell him and get dumped!
Can't handle your drink? Then don't drink!
That's no excuse for rape. No victim blaming please.
@jacquesvol Dude, that's a feminist plant.
What a coward! Going anonymous to say something as insensitive as this. What is the world coming to? This is for the person who posted the actual opinion.
@Transigence Sure, it's the feminists who make rapists rape. [Sarcasm=OFF]
@jacquesvol I hope you're not trying to characterize me -- I never said anything even remotely resembles that.
@jacquesvol well I wasn't really blaming her... but I don't understand why do people get drunk as hell? So much that they have no power over anything? I mean of course what happened if very wrong. I am not supporting the rapist but I don't support her actions too... She could have watched her drink!
She's the victim. "She could have watched ______." is too eSilh said. There'll ALWAYS be something she "could have watched"... The place, drinks, the hour, her clothes, going to the loo in another place than home, meeting people with different religion or race or sex or non family members... that way about anything can be used against a rape victim. And about anything has been used)
Edit: *it's too easily said. Typo.
Absolutely! It's not acceptable for ANYONE to be treated this way, if he doesn't believe you take it to a higher level and tell your parent/guardian. If possible get the police involved. This will probably take a long time to get over. Lots of Love xx