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Sexual Health My boyfriend and I never have sex, but we occasional do fingering. This last time he had fingered me after he just masturbate with the same hand. We took the plan B the same day, but I weigh more the weigh limit for effectiveness.
He told me if I got pregnant he want to abort the baby and I said I could never do that because the baby is human being. He then told me I have to give the baby up for adoption and I said that he is good thing to do as well. He told if I got pregnant and I kept the baby out of wedlock he will move on with his life because he can never marry someone who had a child out of wedlock, he will never be a father to the kid or pay any child support. He said his family will disown him and his church will outcast him. My boyfriend sounds like an a**hole and I should move on with my life. Any thoughts?
My catholic boyfriend told me if I got pregnant with him outside of wedlock he wanted nothing to do with me if I kept the child. Any thoughts?
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11 35Yea fuck him move on you sound like you would enjoy someone thats way more open minded when is the last time you even had sex?
What an asd
Hahaha your boyfriend sounds like a depressed ignorant asshole. I say dump him. Regardless of his religion if he isn't man enough to take care of his child that he made regardless of being married it is still his responsibility to be there for it. And if not he is no man but a loser. Sounds like you should dump him and stop dating him let alone think about marrying him
This is a little off topic but the idea of waiting to have sex to til marriage has always been ridiculous to me. 1 sex is about love regardless of marital status. 2 it's stupid not to just have sex if if your are already being penetrated and orgasming. Same with him he is already jerking it and orgasming. There's not much of a difference if your getting penetrated by his dick.
You need a better boyfriend.
Definitely move on.
I was raised catholic but this guy seems way overboard. I would consider what he’s saying and decide for yourself if he’s really right for you.
Wishful thinking on his part, because he would have to pay child support.
Tell him that he is a fucking hypocrite because catholics are against abortions
Wow. So this super serious Catholic is having premarital sex and refuses to take responsibility for any child that he fathers.
If you got pregnant from that it's pretty much immaculate conception
That is because the Catholic Church would be made at him. But if you had an abortion and not being Catholic they would excuse him... You need to leave him...
He’s an idiot and I am catholic so i can say it without any assumption. Frankly, the religion has nothing to do with him being an idiot.
Lol. Damn it. Well at least you got q good heads up he isn't the one
Well if it was me i'd only say that to a girl I'd never want a future with. But it may because of the whole catholic thing I don't know
He is not sincere, do not trust him, leave him, and get other boyfriend
You should get prrgnt from another Catholic instead then he will stay with u
I have to tell you: he’s not a catholic
Better hurry up and have sex before abortion is outlawed in the USA.
he's a piece of shit and a hypocrite
he's a piece of shit. dump his ass. it takes two to make a baby and the fact that he wants to disown the baby and dump you after getting you knocked up you should cut his dick off and his fingers off so he can't fuck anyone else again. waiting until marriage and hiding behind that asinine catholic pedo shit church and yet telling you to get an abortion. if anything his mother should of had an abortion with him the fucking hypocrite. just chop his dick and fingers off make life easier on yourself