My friend gave me a blowjob when she thought I was sleep?

[Anonymous]

So my friend is down on her luck and so has been staying at my parents house for the last few days while she looks for a job. I have known her all through school and she's cute i guess but like a big sister to me. Last night my parents had went to bed and we were watching tv downstairs. After while she wanted to switch to some romance movie and I fell asleep lying on the couch.

I woke up some time during the night as i felt something fumbling with my pants zipper but didn't move around much, and then i felt a hand pulling my penis out my boxers, and then felt a mouth on it. She was sucking gently on it for i guess somewhere like 5~10 minutes until i finally came in her mouth

Then she got up and walked away for a bit. I was kinda peeking out my eye but not a lot i didn't know where she was and didn't want her to know I was awake. She came back a few minutes later and started rubbing my penis again for a bit before sucking on it some more. Again it was just slow and gentle I guess she was trying to not wake me up. I had no real sense of time but it seemed to go on for at 15 minutes until I came again

After this time she put my penis up and slowly redid my zipper before going upstairs where her room was supposed to be. She seemed pretty normal the next day in kitchen but said had to go and run some errands and left quickly. What do i do?

also real age is 20 and she's almost 21

[oncpl]

It reminds me of my own incident. I had relations with a girl. She didn't want sex before marriage. I consented but she never refused to take off her clothes, so did I. We used to stay nude whole day. Once she had to spend night with me. As usual we were nude, made love and also oral sex, but one sided, that it was me who licked her pussy. She didn't touch my cock. At night I felt someone sucking my cock. I thought it was dream but no, it was reality. She was sucking my cock as well as kissing me wildly. A minute or so she would kissed, then sucked, and it went alternatively. I exactly posed as you have described. Her wild sucking resulted as was expected, that I came into her mouth. She continued till cock was soft. I wondered why did she do so if never wanted sex. After about two hours, she repeated it till her mouth was full of my cum. At dawn when we were taking shower together, I asked her to suck my cock. She refused and when I mentioned that she had done twice during previous night, she couldn't say anything except sucking my cock. That was all.
What I conclude from my experience and yours', sometimes girls desire to suck or sex but inhibition don't allow them to have it.

[Asker]

Yes it is very strange predicament. Did she swallow your mum as well?

[oncpl]

She did not swallow because most of my cum was dripping out of her mouth but she continued sucking.

[COMMODOREII]

You don't think these girls are worried that we might want more out of them or they just can't handle the urges so go for the opportunity they have thinking we won't know so they hide their true intentions?

[oncpl]

@COMMODOREII I think very shy girls, after refusing or reluctant to have sex, stick to their attitude showing that they are not interested in it. Contrary to it, being human being, they have inward sex urge which they try to satisfy either by arousing guys to "rape" them or when find opportunity, they do, as in our case, deceiving themselves that guy are fast asleep, so they can suck his dick.

[COMMODOREII]

Well im ok if they want to milk me while im asleep. Lol

[oncpl]

@COMMODOREII Shy and adventurous girls play wildly with cock presuming that the guy is fast sleeping.

[oncpl]

Thanks for this status.

[centerline]

dont do anything... if you decide that you MUST do something, just thank her for the special gift, and ask her what you can do in return to make it even... then let it go and see what happens...

you can send a card, a flower with a note or a simple text... and wait for her to make the next move, but DONT bug her about it or she will feel crowded or pressured, and it will all go away.

[Asker]

I don't know if I feel comfortable confronting her yet

[AustinMan]

Talk to her about it.

[Asker]

I don't know if I feel comfortable confronting her yet

[AustinMan]

Is this helpful?

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[AustinMan]

So now that you confronted her and she's confessed to feelings for her, what are you going to do? This is a girl who'll do just about anything you could want sexually. Might be worth a test drive or two.

[Asker]

Was gonna put it in update but I ran out of updates cause you can only make 2 a week which seems weird but we're dating and having sex now but parents dont know as they would probably find it weird and kick her out. So yeah it all worked out great

[AustinMan]

Was I right? Is she very submissive sexually?

[Asker]

Definitely feels like it she has an oral fetish and while i do return the favor it still feels like no where near the amount she blows me which is like everyday but now she's a lot more active and likes to deepthroat She even let me finger her ass when i asked her about it though she says she's not ready to try anal yet. And while she's not big into bondage she's cool with letting me tie her hands together when were together

[AustinMan]

Sounds like you're off to the races. Despite what she said, she has an anal fetish. You might manhandle her roughly over your knee, bare her bottom, and tell her she's been a bad girl followed by some hard swats to her ass. She how she reacts. I suspect she'll love it.

[summiter]

It sounds like fun. Do you want to start a relationship with her? Have sex with her?
I think it would be ok to tell her you had a weird dream that you got a bj from her and see where it goes.

[Asker]

If I did that I think she would figure out I was awake and I don't feel comfortable confronting her about it

[Kaneki05]

Sounds like it's really based on true events... But she raped you if it did happen. But if you enjoyed don't get what your asking here and why you cannot just keep at it lol

[gaygod_19]

sounds like rape to me

[COMMODOREII]

Maybe so but my ex did to me when i was asleep. Lol

[gaygod_19]

@COMMODOREII it’s rape if u didn't give them consent beforehand or discuss beforehand.

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah but if its a girl i know a friend my girlfriend. Im not going to hold it against her. 😛😜

[gaygod_19]

@COMMODOREII well cool cuz u consented them that’s why you don’t have a problem with it.

[COMMODOREII]

No its just that if a girl friend of mine did to me what this guys friend did. I am not going to embarrass you. Plus im ok if she wanted to or needed to do something. All i ask is tell me im ok with sharing with her. Lol

[gaygod_19]

@COMMODOREII yes and that’s called “u consented them beforehand”

[COMMODOREII]

Not if i haven't told them they could. Lol

[gaygod_19]

@COMMODOREII not saying that they shouldn't ask for consent, but you personally have no problem with it aka you consented them. A lot of other people didn't consent but those girls just assume they like it so they they did anyway and that’s called rape, and also why consent is safer when it’s verbal, and also why we should always ask for consent.

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah true. I see what you mean. 😎

[Asker]

Interesting

[1amcurious]

Wow 😋

[Asker]

It was weird. Can a guy really even cum while asleep and not wake up?

[1amcurious]

If a guy can have a night fall, then why not?

[SirBearon]

She knows you were awake. There's no way you can cum twice without being awake. She's just playing along with your little game you're playing. Nothing should be weird about her sucking you off. You're both adults and if you didn't want it you would have stopped her. So just start fucking her or tell her to suck you off and watch next time.

[Asker]

She couldn't think it impossible guys can cum while sleeping could she?

[SirBearon]

Guy's can't cum when they sleep unless it's a wet dream. You have to be super sensitive to cum while you sleep. I've not known any guy who has came in their sleep. She knows you know.

[Asker]

Pretty sure its called nocturnal emission

[SirBearon]

I'm not saying it's not possible but highly highly highly rare for a guy to be erect, getting stimulation while asleep and not wake up. Especially a man's cock. Trust me. She knows you were awake, now she's too embarrassed because you're making it weird. Ask her why she did it. Talk with her about it. No big deal.

[COMMODOREII]

Not true. Guys can cum when they asleep by a bj. It has happened to me while i was asleep my ex gave me a bj.

[SirBearon]

That's the 1st time I've ever heard of it. Ever in my life, even if you don't remember waking up. Like a said, it's extremely rare. I've known a lot of men and have had sexual discussions with a lot of men and women and none of them have ever told me that. So, ok it's possible. Ask her if she knew you awake.

[COMMODOREII]

I did. She told me she was surprised i slept through it. I thinking i was just tired that night from working long hrs at the hospital.

[SirBearon]

No, not you. The asker.

[Asker]

I'm gonna wait and see 1st if it happens again before i even think about asking about it

[SuccessfulHornDog]

WTF is it with people on here and not using their real ages? Why does your age differ so much from your posted age?

[Asker]

cause no one takes you serious when you 20

[SuccessfulHornDog]

oh...

[SuccessfulHornDog]

so, what is your plan for this girl? Are you going to see if you can recreate the situation again tonight?

[Asker]

Yeah to at least see if it was a one off thing or if this is something that's been happening regularly. Everyone always tells me I'm a heavy sleeper

[SuccessfulHornDog]

go for it. Free blow jobs rule

[COMMODOREII]

Happening regularly? 😮 now this is something to consider. Hey follow me i want to keep up with you on this story. 😂

[COMMODOREII]

Cool 😎 how do you feel about it? 😗

[Asker]

It felt good I didn't know girls would give a blowjob for so long

[MarkyMark77]

wow you are super lucky. can i talk to you more in private about this? i have a similar expereince.

[asshole_]

isn't that rape

also, she's not a "friend" if she's giving you head

[Asker]

I'm not sure Then what is she?

[asshole_]

it's whatever you want it to be, but, it ain't friends Again, "friends", don't give/get head

[Asker]

Maybe they should the world would be a better place =3

[asshole_]

nope

[asshole_]

you sound like a real idiot

[Asker]

Why :(

[asshole_]

Why do you think

[Asker]

Not sure. I ran out of updates cause you can only make 2 a week which seems weird but were dating and having sex now but parents dont know as they would probably find it weird and kick her out

[asshole_]

they should kick you out

[Asker]

Don't know why you're mad really

[asshole_]

i don't know why you're not

[CubaPirate]

You lucky *******

[Asker]

I mean yeah it was cool but also weird. Can a guy really even cum when he's asleep without waking up?

[gandolph3]

Next time say thank you mzy i retirn the favor

[Asker]

I don't know if I feel comfortable confronting her yet

[gandolph3]

next time watching a movie, tell her if you fall asleep you hope she helps herself to a sweet snack again

[Asker]

Lol i thought it was just one of those things people joke about where you say to someone else something like "its a real shame you fell asleep cause something super amazing happened right after you fell asleep!"

[gandolph3]

any updates

[Anonymous]

TMDR! but based on the title question it sounds like she raped you. You need to stay away from her and tell the authorities.

[Anonymous]

Cool story bro.

Today on things that didn’t happen

[Anonymous]

Please send name, phone number and pics so I can question her and have her take a sample from me for evidence.

[Asker]

That doesn't make any sense...

[Opinion Owner]

Humor was injected in my opinion.