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Sexual Health My husband has never given me an orgasm and doesn't care to try?
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My husband and I have been together for 4 years. Our sex live sucks. He has never given me an orgasm and every time I try to talk to him about it he gets angry. I just don't know what to do anymore. He is a good man. We've been to therapy for it and it doesn't do anything. Every time I sleep with him I think about other men. He also never lasts more than a minute, with or without a condom. Even if we have sex often it doesn't make a difference. I also have to practically beg for it because he doesn't care to do it very much. I am suffering here and i have needs. I'm 23 and he is 29. What advice do you have for me?
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What Girls & Guys Said
17 24Kick him in the balls. That's neglectful and it sucks. Totally uncool.
he's s selfish lover. He can control his orgasm. Of course it's not an off and on switch but he needs to teach himself to control it. Maybe you should try edging with him. Tell him he can't cum for a month or so or until you feel he's ready to have sex with you and really mean it. I'm assuming be never goes down on you either? He needs to work on his foreplay and stop being selfish! Be a man and eat out your wife's pussy. Tell him he can't fuck you until he gets that right too! Im sure you can orgasm with clit stimulation. That would be huge for you! If he won't change. Hate to say it but you gotta find yourself another man.
Girls, never marry a man that doesn't give you a orgasm.
It just reveals how much selfish or lazy it is.
Do sex before marriage, is a "tool" to know people better, it's a different type of language.
Well don't cheat, just divorce him
Much easier said then done.
You want her to Divorce him because he isn't getting her pussy wet enough? *Sigh* what generation was I born in that sees no value in marriage beyond sex.
Your husband isn't man at all.
why dont you tell him to try new things, like a good long foreplay, Rough sex and many other stuff
Did you try sex before marriage? Was he good before marriage?
I waited. And then found out afterwards
There's you're problem. You jumped into a relationship with him too fast. You need to see if you're sexually compatible before dedicating your life to someone.
You waited until marriage? HAHAHAHA!!! That's all the guys you rejected laughing in your face. And your kids face. Christ what a fuck up.
Forget him. I am here for you always..
leave him or cheat before you go mad for sex. sounds wrong advice but be practical.
try masturbation
I don't know how
Look it up.
sex toys
Ok, you play with the ball thing ( clitorus) and well put things in your vagina, that's how girls masturbate.
No worries honey! Come to me, I'm super hot and very strong! can fuck you till 5 times a day, and make you as high as 20 times orgasm! ;)
I know one thing : Never cheat! And solve the issue logically... Because cheating will make things even worse in the future
just talk to him
Anything that might have happened in his life that can explain his lack of sexual interest? Disease, depression, stress at work, etc. ? If there is any suspicion about anything medical he should see a physician.
If he's generally not interested in sex, that might how he's always been, alternatively he could be out of shape and/or having a poor diet. Try to convince him to get him fit with exercise and a good diet
Buy some toys. Bought mine a cock ring since he was the same and it worked :)
I don't know what to buy
I'd bring in a vibrator