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Sexual Health My husband threatens to leave me because I fucked more guys than he thought?
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My husbands new boss is a guy who I had casual sex with back in college and he bragged about it to some of his employees and word reached my husband. I had 4 casual partners (ONS and fuck buddies) that I didn't tell my husband about. I only told him about my 4 exes because he only asked how many bf's I had before him. I didn't see a reason to tell that because I knew he could be a little jealous and I was his first. I told him everything and now he threatens to leave me for that? We have a kid of 2 and I am pregnant with a second! I know it's not the most fun thing to hear but we have buit a family and he would break up because other guys have been in his wife before him? I know it's not just his thoughts. He has some bad friends that are into this anti-feminism shit and think women are only there to pump and dump, who talked him into this kind of thinking. Men want to be fucked but don't want a woman who's been fucked. They want us to know how to suck their cocks, fuck them senseless with enthusiasm but never take pleasure in the act until they are our partners? lol Ignorant, narcissistic egomaniacs. This is the attitude that keeps your wife lying to you and fucking someone else while you complain online that she doesn't enjoy sex, low sex drive, won't give it up. Comments like "no one wants to wife the slut" I would rather fuck 100 more guys in my life then marry a closed minded uptight basement jacking off to hamster porn because I shame my wife into being afraid to enjoy fucking douchebag! Sorry for being so angry and spreading a negative vibe, but WTF?
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What Girls & Guys Said
7 38It's simple. No disclosure means divorce. You weren't honest with him.
If it was no big deal maybe you shouldn't have been a liar.
If he leaves he doesn't deserve you but your wrong for not being transparent about something that you knew would matter to him your husband is embarrassed and ashamed and hurt but if he loves you he won't leace
This is stupid on his part. Who cares.
Guys have to realize that "she's gonna get her 'skillz' from somewhere."
I see marriage counseling in your future.
Yeah, I'd say he should leave you.
You were dishonest in not revealing everything. Makes it hard to trust you going from there.
Lol sounds that he jealous of you having more cock than he got pussy
question are you still secretly fucking any of them
He's acting like a kid I think, but at the same time, you weren't really straight forward. When he asked about your past, you know you could've given him all of the info instead of expecting him to pull teeth. It's just an immature situation al around.
is it pretty
I would want to be with you because you are you. So you slept with (so many) guys, big deal. (I think that's hot) If you want to sleep with more guys, that's cool too, just come home to ME. Thats all that matters.
So she should sleep around and at last come near him (husband) , after marriage too. So that is open relationship
@koushikshine Yes.
Oh thats not common to all
@koushikshine No.. but some people love it. Im one of em
long story.
can he break up the job
If i am him i will leave u
Excuise to him and all of us are sinners
Think it from his (husband) point of view. How he must be feeling in that environment where all his colleagues knows that his wife has pleasured all the staffs including the Boss also... n what they may make fun of him both in front of him and behind his back. How even after getting mocked by his Boss about how he used his his... he srill has to respect him and call him "Sir", because he is the boss and he is the one who gives him salary n is dependent on him somehow. And knowing that they (exes and Boss) are happily married with their wives and does'nt have to go through this as he did'nt sleep with their wives... so his feeling and self respect will be broken.. n all tge collegues and boss will have fun behind his back. Will you like it? That the person who accepted you and committed to you n married you has ro go through this for no fault of his? Will you be happy to see him getting mocked and made fun by his collegues with whom his wife slept numerous times?
you are just explaining the differences between whores and good girls
Thats where your mentality lies, i. e to sleep around with 100's of men, because its not a big thing for you, so that means you won't mind just sleeping around for sex after marriage as well as its not a big thing, and even may sleep with the husband's Boss, n on next day the Boss will pass the pleasure to the whole office, thereby making your husband hung his head in shame in front of his Boss n collegues. Thats what he gets for accepting you
I actually glad he doesn't want you anymore. Good man. You fucked around, you're problem.
As long as you're not cheating on him and having sex with other people now, it shouldn't be a problem. Tell him that now.
Oh she can still sleep around after marriage and not cheat? How
Maybe he thinks you might cheat on him.
Ummmm
u shouldn't have lied about how many guy u were with. i hope leaves u lol
okay yes she shouldn't have lied. but the guys she had sex with is in the past is it not? answer is yes. okay when me and my girlfriend started it was in the second month she started telling me how many guys she did it with before me. know i dont care about past relationships or how many guys she did have sex with. but she felt like i need to know. okay about him leaving you. he shouldn't. my girlfriend kissed her ex while her one day by accident. she told me she wouldn't have blamed me for leaving her. even though every bone in my body wanted to. i didn't and told not to do it again as i was laying down next her while she was crying about. its been 3 months since then and im still with her. so if her husband loves her. then he'll look past it.