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I saw her text messages while my husband was in shower. And from what I have seen they have been doing this for very long time. I also found out she has a boyfriend and two kids. I never imagined this would happen. I definitely want to get back at her somehow. She hides the fact that she is a prostitute. I will also get a divorce. But what to do about her?
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Had a talk with my husband. He tried to persuade me into staying as most cheaters do but I guess I will play with him for a while to make myself feel better. Thanks everyone for answers.
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21 36I'd forget about her and focus on your relationship (and its disillusionment) and what you can do to move yourself forward.
Of you REALLY are set on getting some measure of revenge, then simply report her to the police. Do not lower yourself to the point where you do something silly and pick a fight with her or something like that.
Do you actually feel comfortable doing that kind of work?
Probably
At $120 a guy I would let you do it!
I think his behavior is wrong but why would you want
want punish your self for what he did wrong? No doubt
making money giving hand jobs would be form of
sexual service with male in exchange for money could
be considered low grade of prostitution service I'm
not judging you at all I'm just making a statement
i really don't know if i would want get involved with
something like that can be sketchy situation
She doesn't necessarily even know he's married, so why would she have to pay for anything? Your anger should only be directed at your husband, he's the one who betrayed you. Get a divorce, and that's it. Chances are she already has a crappy life if she's giving handjobs to clients for extra cash.
Text her, let her know its over. And get rid of him, no way to know what else he did with her.
I have a pool you can drown her in and a shovel you can borrow
he is an asshole and yeah divorce the fucker but 1 question how often did you 2 get it on and also try new shit?
If she's a prostitute then she is not a massage therapist.
well geeze message me I want to get a massage and then ahandjob haha, :D
hahaha that's kinda funny.
I don't see how. But whatever you wouldn't want to be my husband.
It maybe fun for her , or maybe she is doing it for cash first collect some rock hard evidences for divorce and then contact that girl maybe pay her off if you do not want to leave your hubby , maybe he thinks he can go on hiding things with the person who has bonded with soul, what a idotic pervert.
Through my work in the media I have spoken with many prostitutes, all of whom told me the same thing. They said that most of their patrons were married men whose wives/girlfriends were not taking care of business at home. If the wives/girlfriends took care of business, they (the prostitutes) would be out of business. Your attitude stinks. Instead of planning a divorce and looking for ways to fuck up your husband's life, talk with him. Ask him what is lacking in your sexual relationship that causes him to be willing to pay another woman for hand jobs. He cared about you enough to stay with you, despite the lack of sexual satisfaction. You should care enough to want to fix the problem in your relationship.
He lied to me and humiliated me. He was just doing it for fun. He needs massages for his back, but he doesn't have to be naked.
I am always taking care of sex.
He didn't leave me yet because he didn'twant to lose his house and finances.
Nothing about her, it's your husband who is an asshole. Sure she is a dick to her husband, but thats not your business.
He will pay
Fine, lose your shit about it. But she still is NOT to blame for anything.
You fucking another man to get back at him or her isn't doing anyone any favors. It might feel good but it doesn't help anything.
Thats grounds for a Divorce right on the spot
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Not much you can do about her, is there?
Given that your hubby is doing that though, obviously no one will blame you for filing for divorce. That's the single best reason ever to file.
Time to deny him sex
He won't be getting anything.
Good because you deserve better.. and he should be giving sex to you.
Nah I am getting it from someone else already. He has zero importance to me.
I like that and when his money runs our he will have his hand
can i be ur first client?
Haha yeah. How old are you?
16 im old enough no one will know :D
What's your username?
@altair212
I don't know how to find you.
really
give her husband a hand job
I don't know him. I will need to find a stranger.
next time he goes there tell the cops so they barge in and arrest her