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I saw her text messages while my husband was in shower. And from what I have seen they have been doing this for very long time. I also found out she has a boyfriend and two kids. I never imagined this would happen. I definitely want to get back at her somehow. She hides the fact that she is a prostitute. I will also get a divorce. But what to do about her?
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Had a talk with my husband. He tried to persuade me into staying as most cheaters do but I guess I will play with him for a while to make myself feel better. Thanks everyone for answers.
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What Girls & Guys Said
21 36Forget about her don't waster your energy.
Set u a hidden camera and show her husband
How am I going to do that? I don't know where they meet. I will just film myself having fun.
give your husband a massage
Lol he will have to watch me first.
Can you tell please town and country?
He went to the massage to get relieved of stress, and loosen him up.
The massesuse is supposed to massage stiff joints, his dock being very stiff.
A HJ is a minor deal. You shouldn't be so harsh on him.
I have no problem with you going out and servicing guys, either.
We all need a little strange action once in a while...
He was doing this for a long time with the same woman. No this is not a professional massage only prostitutes do this. It's also illegal. He can get a normal massage not like this. I will get back at him.
you're just as bad as her good way to degrade yourself
I don't jack off married men, so don't compare me to her.
How do you know they're not married it's easy to take the ring off or lie. And I was actually comparing you to giving ANY guy a hand job. You're so bitter you're willing to lower yourself to their level guess he did you over twice now. I feel sorry for you , let anger take control and cloud your judgment just to get revenge. I guess you're still young and have things to learn. It's easier to be angry than it is to be sad. Ohwell it's your life.
So you think I should stay and do nothing like a punching bag right? Yeah well I am not like that.
Not saying that. I just think a different approach rather than degrading yourself
Counselling? What will that bring? I decided to dump him and start my own life. I am not his wife anymore. I am free to do whatever I want.
Where did counseling come from lol. I never said that. Just feel sorry for you degrading yourself and willing to give sexual favours to men just because a guy. Did you wrong why not burn his house down take half his money. Embarrass him in front of his friends and family. Rather than being a boarder line prostitute just to get back to someone that hurt you. This really effected you aye. Poor girl.
Well at least i am enjoying myself. Haha
Disgusting
No didn't you see what that guy said? It's a therapy.
I think you should give him a better job
Ok I'm going to get a little naughty here. My guy LOVES hand jobs and I like doing them. Nice morning quickie and the results are fun fun fun.
So then he won't need a massager so work on it. Trust me it works 😉
Haha too late for that. .. I am busy
Report her duh
Don't forget the proof.
That would be idiotic. I doubt he values you because you're cheap, and doing something like that pretty much makes you cheap. Sure though, if you want to gain the title of prostitute right before you may very well likely be rejoining the dating scene, go ahead. That'll get you quite a few awesome dates with quality men, I'm sure. . . I think you need to calm your heart. This vindictive mean crap will really only hurt you in the end, you are poisoning your own heart.
He can divorce me if he wants. I don't care about my marriage anymore.
I can tell. I'm not referring only to your marriage, I am referring to those you may date in the future. I am also referring to yourself, I wasn't kidding when I said you would poison yourself if you continue to harbor these angry emotions, you're hurting no one but yourself.
Most men don't even think about this as prostitution. I have nothing to loose.
They don't hmm? I beg to differ! Pretty sure if I was giving hand jobs at the end of my appointment to my clients, my husband would have some pretty ill feelings about that. It is prostitution and any man who is worth your time is going to agree with me.
Yeah. And make sure he finds out.
I will be careful.
No. He should know this. If he complains, tell him that you know what he is doing behind your back.
Lol you didn't read my other question did you?
I did read your text but its really difficult to understand. What does your husband know or not know? How did you find out what and where? And what do you really want to do here and what is the problem?
Read my previous question.
Im not bothering yo do that. You should have linked it if it was needed for this question.
Sure try it
Give other men nude massages with hand jobs and film it. I mean it's a therapy right?
Haha I am getting ready for it.