My new boyfriend has a really small penis, what to do?

My new boyfriend has a really small penis and I'm struggling with it. I can barely feel it when it goes in and I have a really tight vagina.
he's really nice but I feel like this could become an issue! Is there any other position we could try?

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  • Doggy or legs back to the wall pile driver pounding usually is the deepest positions I find. Or you could try laying on your side and then he can be in between your legs upright and try that type of penetration. That tends to go deep as well. Also, if you have your legs together, it might feel a bit more snug for you.

    Or, ANAAAALLLLL!!!

    Or tell him to improve his oral game then. ;)

  • IF you love him there are options. You guys need to talk about this and work out alternatives to keep that smile on your face.

  • Try laying on your side, and have him penetrate you when he's in the missionary/doggy position (on his knees facing you). I've read more than one article that said that position allows as much of the penis as possible to get inside the vagina.

  • Are you sure its small and that your "tight" vagina isn't just loose? Are you sure?

    • lol I love how all the men are up voting opinions that suggest size don't matter or that the girls vagina is too big. But in all serious, you might thing your vagina is tight or feels tight but could be loose cause of relaxed or stretched muscles. Try kegal exercises and see if anything changes, if you don't feel anything then... well... you have a problem or just stick with him. lol

    • Or his dick is just too small >.>

    • @Yamii Or his dick is too small. C'mon, it can't always be a woman's vagina is too, I know men don't like to admit it but the truth is not all men are that well endowed below. Small penises exist , men know this but definitely don't want it to be them cause it's an ego crusher to them the say way have smaller breast or bigger larger is an ego crusher to some women. It is what it is, if you have a small pecker.. you just live with it and try to make the best of what you have.

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  • haha, pictures or you're lying.

    • swiggity swooty show me your booty ;)

    • Lol.

    • This is Red Fox. I have infiltrated enemy lines, and am waiting at the location of relevance; Behind the caltrops at Springfield. Do you copy?

  • If he's worth it, stay and work things out.

  • Any positions with closed legs would be better so doggy instead of missionary but beyond that there's nothing you can do beyond a cosmetic surgery

  • Get him to spend more time on foreplay.

    • Hi Sarah

    • How could it increase the penis size?

    • @herambvedpathak lol. Not the question. If someone is concerned about size, it is generally because they fear lack of pleasure or satisfaction for her. By spending time on foreplay, this can help with that concern.

  • Teach him how to use his tongue.

  • Leave him u will get new one... or use some medical help for enlargement of penis 👍

  • You can always love without the sex

    • I'm laughing at all the desperate guys downvoting anything that suggests size matters lol. Go in a huff all you want but they're girls they know if it does or doesn't, you don't

    • I know it wouldn't matter in my relationship (:

  • Maybe Try doggy style

    • @bananagirl But I think heart matters more then penis she should not break his heart by leaving the guy

    • @herambvedpathak - i didn't say anything about leaving the guy I just said maybe try doggy style and I got downvoted for it

    • Ohh I am really sorry I was only talking with you

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  • Try dildo, and tell him that he has small penis and u dont feel pleasure together u will work better result, by the way dildo would be best, tounge fingers , cuz i gues there is no position that helps with small penis i mean not for u '_' cuz for him, he could do much more "_" u can always try to suck him off and he will go down to your puss or try other types of pleasur,

    • if i was told that, i would leave because that sounds like a size queen

    • And what is so wrong about it srsly, truth is the best way

    • Great advice. That will fuck their relationship up so bad lol

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  • How small are you talking about?

    • This. I want to know for future relationships *0*

  • You could try the position of cuckhold.

    Other than that, you might want to find another guy.

  • Why does it have to be an issue? Like, as long as it isn't uncomfortable for you, let him enjoy it for himself, then for you, do other things like use toys (do you think he would mind or be offended?). Talk to him about using them first, just don't say it's because he has a small penis, just say you REALLY like it and does he mind? He can also do oral on you. To me, there are ways around this that don't involve breaking up or anything. If... you care about him?

  • Damn that's fucked up, lmao! I'm sorry but, that's something I didn't expect to find first thing when I come here. If he's nice, doesn't abuse you, enjoys eating pussy, fingers you, holds the vibrator while you just spit (pun intended) out orgasm after orgasm, then I think you can get past this. That's if you're able to achieve multiple orgasms as a lot of women cannot. There are plenty of videos out there I'm sure, well not too sure, but you could probably find help on Google? I'm trying not to laugh but is "really small" a synonym for tiny? Sorry again but I do wish you GOOD LUCK!

  • how big is it and how wide is it, can you give measurements?

  • maybe try to talk to him about it? I understand that it would be a bit awkward but together you could find a good solution and he could maybe find good ways to satisfy you.

  • Try performance enhancers at your local novelty shop or a penis pump

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