My partner likes to watch me dress and undress. is this normal?

[SamtheDnDgirl]

I don't mind doing it for them, as it's kind of exciting for me too, but I'm just wondering.

[Daniela1982]

I think a lot of guys like it so don't see it as a problem as long as it is just for a significant other and not a bunch of different guys at the same time. Then you would be no different than a stripper. Get ready for your tips.

For just your significant other

for everyone

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Well you'll be happy to know it's a SO only thing.

[EmmaMary]

My husband very much enjoys watching, but more so helping me dress/undress.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

That's nice of him.

[EmmaMary]

@samthedndgirl I must have got the only man in the world who actually enjoys helping me put my bra on, rather than "ripping" it off me!

[SamtheDnDgirl]

I have warned my partner to be careful with my bra.

[EmmaMary]

@samthedndgirl May I ask, in what way?

[SamtheDnDgirl]

When he took it off, first he just tried to pull it off me, and I told him that you can't do that with the bra I was wearing. One because it was a favorite of mine, and two because it was rather delicate material

[EmmaMary]

@samthedndgirl Was it by any chance a front fastening one?

[SamtheDnDgirl]

No, back fastening. I have one front fastening one and my sports bra is taken off like a tshirt

[EmmaMary]

@samthedndgirl One of my previous boyfriends was so confused when he went to take my bra off, only to discover that it was a front fastening one! lol We all know just how difficult guys find it in unhooking a normal rear fastening one, let alone a front one!

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Oh. I've had that happen too, we were making out and he was reaching back to unfasten it and I just told him that it hooks in front.

[EmmaMary]

@samthedndgirl Fancy confusing the poor little soul. lol

[EmmaMary]

Gosh! Thank you so much @samthedndgirl for the MHGirl.

[Jjpayne]

I think it can be sexy. There are even sensual portraits that use that as a focus

[SenseiSeptred]

You're asking that as a Millennial and a D&D player?

[SamtheDnDgirl]

More like I'm looking to see if more like it.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

I also enjoy doing it for

[SenseiSeptred]

That would depend on if you were wearing something modest before undressing.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

Sometimes, I'm just wearing my usual clothes

[SenseiSeptred]

I always thought about using a hijab-wearing character in a Dungeons and Dragons game though.

[SamtheDnDgirl]

It sounds cool with that sort of devotion to a religion. I'm not religious, but my character could be.

[SenseiSeptred]

Or at least to protect yourself in a desert region.

[Blondeandfree]

Yeah may hubby also love to watch me while dressing and undressing. I guess it’s a normal thing.

[wingattebaby16]

Most men love watching us get dressed and especially, undressed. it is highly erotic for them and in my experience, often leads to better sex. And that sex "seems" to occur after I am done undressing... LOL

[OlderAndWiser]

Seems rather normal to me.

[ohshee]

I think it's hot and a turn on plus it's fun to play like that

[summiter]

It is way hot. If he likes it keep doing it. Next time you undress, undress him and give him a handjob.. he will love it.

[TonyV]

How undressed do you go? Down to panties or full nude?

[Jessej1031]

My husband watches me and sometimes I give him a show I bend over unlady like he loves that its normal I watch him to when he undresses he wears womens string bikini panties and when he drops his pants I like seeing him in them and the way is stuff hangs in them

[JPrez]

That's totally normal. Guys love looking at their partners bod - it helps turn them on because we guys are visual creatures. The more you do it, the more likely you are to increase his passion for you. Have fun with it!

[wankiam]

dont know if its ''normal'' but i certainly like that sort of thing

[slatyb]

Seems pretty normal to me. I like to watch my wife dress and undress.

[Hermes-Paris]

Purdy much. At least in all the continents maybe save Antarctica.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

It's so normal that it's actually a ridiculous question in that context. Men are visual and we love the female form. We go to strip clubs and pay to watch women undress when we don't have one at home. lol

[Dargil]

Very normal.

[Apope16]

Absolutely. it means he likes you a lot. Intense sexual attraction!

[Gwenhwyfar]

Totally normal

[classic_crime]

Lol I love it :) just enjoy being with them and obviously seeing them naked is always fun lol. Best part of the shower lol

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Yes, it's normal most likely they are masturbating afterward?

[Angelo75]

He just enjoys to "see" you and finds you sexy.
Just enjoy the attention.
If i were you, I'd just pick a Saturday night and put on some nice relax music. Put on your nicest underwear.
Drink just a little wine (just a little) and then give him a model show... Just dressing 3 or 4 of your clothes and walk like a model on the catwalk for him.
And at the last dress, let him undress you.
(and you KNOW what follows next...)

[mom_of_two]

totally normal

My boyfriend loves watching me get dressed

especially if I am getting dressed for bed

[Kabluie]

Yeah, many times it just works out we are in the bedroom together when getting dressed or undressed.