Sexual Relationships 
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Basically the below message was what I recently posted. Now here is my picture not that it matters, but what can I do make myself more attractive to someone who has a black fetish? Is it the skin colour only or body or what I’m fucking confused!! I tried a fake tan once which is stupid because I’m already tan and he said I shouldn’t without any reason which just made me feel like I’m not good enough to that dark sexy skin that he likes.
We’ve been together 4 Years hell even have a baby together. I know he loves me, but do I stack up against his black girl fetish?
he's never had a girlfriend who is black, he has only ever fantasised about them. His porn always comes up on his phone and they are always black girls.
He never intentionally does anything to hurt me or patronise me, he doesn’t even talk about it. He’s almost ashamed.. he didn’t admit it for so long. But he is still sexually obsessed with him.
is it possible to only find them
sexually attractive? Why does he find love with white women instead of black women if he likes black porn?
We split once and he immediately tried to have sex with a black girl for the first time. for some reason he had to admit it to me he basically couldn’t get it up because she wasn’t what he expected yet he still fucking watches them fuck!
And it’s usually black on black sex not a white male having sex with a black female.
i know he has his thing and I don’t want to but am I better off finding someone who prefers my look/skin?
Does this mean he loves me less?
im also not a racist, I don’t have a fetish for black women but I do find some to be extremely beautiful and that just makes it worse.
What Girls & Guys Said
9 18nah. you're fine. just be you. if he wanted to be with someone else he already would be. his fantasies are just that. Fantasies. You're his reality and no reason to worry